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21 Kids and Counting.

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merlotgran Thu 03-Jan-19 22:59:42

I would like to say it was a heartwarming programme but it made me cross.

Noel, the father insisting they pay for everything themselves and are not on benefits. They don't say how many children they are claiming child benefit for. OK it's their right but it's still a benefit.

How many prams have they had? Did they say 30?? shock

How much money are they earning from Channel 4 and product advertising. Why don't they just come clean and say it's an income? There's no way their tiny little bakery can finance all that.

Everything they do is 'hard' - even getting the kids out of the door. Why moan and then keep having more kids?

The kids eat rubbish. The older boys look bored stiff.

The holidays are obviously sponsored.

How come the state of the art kitchen appeared like magic within three weeks of Sue having the 21st baby? Who rips their perfectly good kitchen out at that stage?

Do those kids ever go outside and play?

I'd better stop now. As you can gather, I'm not impressed. grin

oldbatty Sat 05-Jan-19 10:52:10

Do people actually believe this? Are you a poster with multiple identities who enjoys upsetting people?

Are you so brave in the real world when you encounter somebody who was not born here?

Legs55 Sat 05-Jan-19 10:53:17

I have no gripe with family who work having as many children as they can afford/want. I admire Amanda Owen aka the Yorkshire Shepherdess, I was brought up in Yorkshire & many farming families had large families.

The family with 21 children live in a former B&B so plenty of room & a Bakery business which lends itself to family life if you're well organised. I prefer to hear about families like these in preference to ones who are living on benefits & multiple children by several often absent fathers.

Chewbacca Sat 05-Jan-19 10:56:20

I would love to know what the eldest children do think about having 20 siblings and having to take responsibility for some of their care. I largely agree with merlotgran's observation that the number of children this couple are having has become almost an industry for them. It seems to me that their whole raison d'être is child production. What will they fill their lives with when they are no longer able to reproduce?

And for those amongst us who say that this is no one's business but their own; my response would have to be: if they don't want to attract public opinion, don't keep broadcasting your family decisions via national television.

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 10:57:50

Get it right Jane10
She has 21 children, not 27. shock

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:07:25

Mabon1
They will currently be receiving/ claiming £20.70pw for the oldest child and £13.70pw for each subsequent child (stops after the end of their 18th year but 16 if working at that age)
£13.70 × number of children 18 or under × 52 weeks + £20.70 × 52 weeks.
That is the present rate but remember that the rate has been lower in previous years.

Barmeyoldbat Sat 05-Jan-19 11:08:56

Yes I agree Oldbatty the comment made was unacceptable but then the poster has a habit of upsetting people with her posts. Just ignore her.

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:13:28

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GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:26:28

*had a
life-jacket. blush

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:28:16

How can a dose of reality upset anyone? They're facts.

M0nica Sat 05-Jan-19 11:29:11

Gabriella I find your comments unacceptable and unhelpful. Perhaps we should just leave the immigrants to drown, because if we did we could employ 5,000 more doctors with the money saved. or would even you find that unpalatable?

Chewbacca Sat 05-Jan-19 11:31:51

This is a thread about a large family, not illegal to. There is a thread about that ?

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:32:45

If anyone who knows and dislikes the tone of my comments, may I respectfully suggest that they skip reading anything under my name. It's really easy and will make you happier.

GabriellaG54 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:35:41

Chewbacca
???

sarahellenwhitney Sat 05-Jan-19 11:44:39

My thoughts were did she suffer 'morning ???sickness' or if like myself and the Duchess of Cambridge and many more suffer not just morning but 24x7.You have to be desperate for kids to go through this 21 times.

JanaNana Sat 05-Jan-19 11:45:52

I've been a customer in their bakery shop and it is a small bakery in a seaside village. They certainly won't get the footfall like a bakery in a more prominent position but they have been also running an online delivery service for a range of their products for quite a while as well so they don't just rely on the earnings from the daily customers to the shop itself.
Two of the eldest children work beside their dad and who knows possibly other members of their family will at some point.
The daughter who works there now is training to do something else and said herself on the programme that she doesn't see herself working permanently in the family business.
They were both adopted as children as shown on previous programmes so maybe this is why they decided to have a large family of their own.
To have 21 children takes a lot of patience, organisation and very hard work. They come across as a loving family from the programmes I have seen, and have seen these programmes for a while. I think they are teaching their children the work ethic in their upbringing.
I personally would not have liked to have that amount of children or anything like it, but they seem to be making a very good job of it and the children are a credit to them both.

notanan2 Sat 05-Jan-19 11:48:00

My theory is that they keep having them to prove to the world that the first baby was okay. It really wasn't, she was a child and he was a man.

EthelJ Sat 05-Jan-19 12:08:14

Lanslass1 sorry but I disagree with you about child benefit, why should the children suffer just because they are number 3 or 4 in a household. Once the children are here they need to be supported after all its not their fault they are here! I can't see anyone having children just for the benefit, children cost much more than that.
Also child benefit is limited in that if one of the parents earns over 51000 a year it gradually tapers out to nothing

EthelJ Sat 05-Jan-19 12:12:20

I also found Gabriella's comments about immigrants distasteful. People are people wherever they come from and deserve compassion.

harrigran Sat 05-Jan-19 12:16:18

I was never comfortable with this being televised.
I presume holidays and lots of other things are courtesy of Channel 4, £50,000 a year does not cover those expenses. On the surface they want us to think of them as a united, happy family but it may be different behind closed doors.

Jalima1108 Sat 05-Jan-19 12:20:57

What will they fill their lives with when they are no longer able to reproduce?
Presumably the grandchildren will have started arriving by then Chewbacca - perhaps she'll be a 'hands-on' granny while the children are all working.
Perhaps she'll join GN then too!

MissAdventure Sat 05-Jan-19 12:23:28

Oh I hope she doesn't use abbreviations if she joins!

merlotgran Sat 05-Jan-19 12:27:42

grin MissA

They already have grandchildren. Sophie, the eldest girl, has three children and there may be others by now.

Jalima1108 Sat 05-Jan-19 12:31:03

Lancslass - and others who mentioned child benefit
I would like to know how much money they are getting in child benefits which had they limited their family to a reasonable size ,could have gone to other worthwhile causes

One day, when these children are adults and presumably, like their father, working, then they will be paying tax which will pay our State Pensions (if we're still around).

Wasn't that one of the reasons for encouraging young workers to come here from overseas? We were getting to the stage where there would not have been enough taxpayers to support the older population.

Jalima1108 Sat 05-Jan-19 12:32:41

Oh I hope she doesn't use abbreviations if she joins!
grin *MissA]

DC1 , DC2, DC3, DC4, DC5-21
DGC 1, DGC2, DGC3 - ?

confused?