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OK call me a prude, but am I alone?

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MawtheMerrier Sun 26-Feb-23 15:09:04

Should TV advertising be "age appropriate" when children are likely to be watching.
Today 3 o clock, Scotland and France were just about to kick off in todays Six Nations Rugby match.
The two ads immediately before kick.off were
1) for electric cars about "urges" including a lesbian kiss
And 2) an ad for Viagra starting with couples in bed and a comment about it "being amazing (or not)"
Doesn't bother me but if I had been watching with my GC (12,11,8) and they will be watching with their parents, I would not have liked to field questions about what they had just seen.i suspect the older boy might have been embarrassed to see/hear that "with Granny" - because all old people are by definition easily scandalised.
Just asking really- AIBU?

annemac101 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:06:47

I must be a prude then as I hate adverts for sanitary towels. The one with woman on toilet and pants at her ankles is horrible. Pants for incontinence in women! Why not show ones for men? They have problems with that too. Nothing is discreet anymore absolutely nothing. It's just the way I feel no one has to agree with me.

Newdawn Mon 27-Feb-23 12:08:25

You could argu that the Andrex toilet paper ads create the idea that every home should have a cute bouncy Labrador puppy. Many people are struggling with pet dogs but according to the ads dog owning is always bliss and what every family with children should do.

25Avalon Mon 27-Feb-23 12:20:10

There is a 9 pm watershed for what is appropriate to be shown on TV. Programmes unsuitable for children should not be shown before then. It’s governed by Ofcom. Certain adverts were not allowed such as those for sanitary protection. So how come these were shown during the rugby?

Galaxy Mon 27-Feb-23 12:22:49

Incontinence affects more women than men, I think its twice as many. So the market is bigger.

Nannan2 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:23:51

I agree all that and more should be after the ' (9-10 pm 'watershed') I think maybe the 'watershed' doesnt exist anymore...🤔

Nannan2 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:25:19

Ofcom.Who are seemingly about as useful as OFGEM..😠

TiggyW Mon 27-Feb-23 12:25:49

annemac101
There is actually an advert for men’s incontinence pants. I wondered how much the actor got paid!
I think the Viagra adverts should be shown after the watershed.
The lesbian kisses just make me cringe. Each to their own… That’s just my own gut reaction. Just PC gone mad. On a more practical note - children need male and female parent figures. It’s not rocket science.🤔

AJgranma Mon 27-Feb-23 12:27:23

Same - rarely see ads but very concerned that gambling (obviously harmful) ones allowed.

Theexwife Mon 27-Feb-23 12:27:40

I don't think the 9 pm watershed is relevant when it comes to sanitary protection, it is about broadcasts being suitable for children under 16.

Primary aged children know about periods, it is a normal bodily function.

hugshelp Mon 27-Feb-23 12:27:48

I'm just sick of everything being sexualised. Do people have no other motivators in life? I don't care whether the kiss is straight or gay, whether the guy needs viagra or not. Kids could be forgiven for learning that the only thing that matters in life is getting laid. That I object to.

ruthiek Mon 27-Feb-23 12:32:36

Mawthemerrier I am with you on this and what about all the adverts for pee snd periods even showing blood! If my grandkids were watching I would be mortified

Blondiescot Mon 27-Feb-23 12:33:07

Theexwife

I don't think the 9 pm watershed is relevant when it comes to sanitary protection, it is about broadcasts being suitable for children under 16.

Primary aged children know about periods, it is a normal bodily function.

Exactly. Primary school age children have periods - why should they not be able to see ads for sanitary protection?

April77 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:38:03

Times have changed, but not necessarily for the better.

Rainwashed Mon 27-Feb-23 12:38:09

I have not seen these adverts but think that viagra advertisements should not be shown in the daytime.I also agree it could be embarrassing for some youngsters to watch it in front of older people and vice versa .

Bignanny2 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:40:18

The lesbian kiss is not inappropriate for children, it’s a kiss between two people in a relationship, quite normal. However I have complained about the viagra adverts being on before 9pm previously and I think incontinance and period products adverts are inappropriate too. Yes kids will need to know about these things , but at an appropriate age. Also why have they started using red (blood coloured) stain on period pad adverts? They are often on at lunch time and are not something that I want to see while I’m eating.

Grantanow Mon 27-Feb-23 12:44:28

Like it or not, life has moved on. Viagra is a commodity like any other and same-sex relationships between adults are legal.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:45:20

I have never understood why we need ads for sanitary towels or tampax - all women and girls know what they are for, and will buy them, whether they are advertised, or not.

But we have lived for years with ads for toilet rolls, sanitary towels, how to cope with prostate difficulties , laxatives etc. etc. so why complain now?

Yes, the 12 year old may well be embarrassed watching an ad of this kind in the company of any grown-up. I was mortified at the age of 14 if a comedian made a "blue" joke when my parents were watching TV with me - as already stated this is part of growing up.

As for kissing - films that children can freely watch at home on TV or their computer are much more explicit about sex than just a kiss or two.

So honestly, turn off the TV if it embarrasses you to watch these ads with your grandchildren, but the ship Public Modesty sailed (and sank) somewhere around 1968.

ExDancer Mon 27-Feb-23 12:45:31

No its not a good idea to throw all this LGBTI+ (or whatever its called) at us, and especially at our children to the extent it is at present!
For instance, I live in a small northern village, something like the same size as Emmerdale, and can honestly say we do not have any openly same sex relationships here. And the thought of the whole village embracing the upcoming Event in support of such practises is laughable. What people get up to in private is not my business.
You are not a prude Maw but it seems I am - and proud of it!

I do know Emmerdale has to 'entertain us' - but for children of your GC's age its not acceptable, there's no need for it.

Rogerxyz Mon 27-Feb-23 12:50:09

MawtheMerrier

Should TV advertising be "age appropriate" when children are likely to be watching.
Today 3 o clock, Scotland and France were just about to kick off in todays Six Nations Rugby match.
The two ads immediately before kick.off were
1) for electric cars about "urges" including a lesbian kiss
And 2) an ad for Viagra starting with couples in bed and a comment about it "being amazing (or not)"
Doesn't bother me but if I had been watching with my GC (12,11,8) and they will be watching with their parents, I would not have liked to field questions about what they had just seen.i suspect the older boy might have been embarrassed to see/hear that "with Granny" - because all old people are by definition easily scandalised.
Just asking really- AIBU?

Hahaha

Shill29 Mon 27-Feb-23 12:56:49

Inappropriate at that time I think

Chestnut Mon 27-Feb-23 12:58:22

Luckily I rarely see adverts as I record everything, but I agree they have gone too far generally. I don't want to see body functions shown in graphic detail. We must be just one step away from being shown how to wipe our bottoms with brown coloured paper shown to the camera. It's all just too ridiculous.

I agree that gambling adverts should go. We don't have cigarettes or alcohol adverts any more so why gambling? How has that managed to survive?

Nantotwo Mon 27-Feb-23 13:02:01

kjmpde

I'm not keen on the advert to do with periods - the victorian scene going on about a " bloody mess down there"

You see, I think this is hilarious, especially the man fainting and the one huffing uncomfortably. I had my first period at age 12, a friend at age 9 poor thing. I'm in my 60s and remember a cute Tampax advert, it wasn't graphic at all. I think that advert was fine, I think humour is fine, it's period products and the more it's normalised, the less silly young boys will make life uncomfortable for girls in school. Not sure about the red dye on the pads, the very sight of it gives me period pains and I am 7 years post menopause. I don't mind the incontinence pads either, I had stress incontinence as a young girl too. Whenever my son asked a question about anything, I just answered. Like the original Worzel Gummide, I put my teachers head on and just got on with it. I never wanted to act embarrassed and project that onto him. I absolutely hate gambling ones especially those showing free spins and endorsed by past and present sports people who look like they are having a great time. I worry far more about youngsters being influenced by them than I do about them being given a choice of tampons.

hugshelp Mon 27-Feb-23 13:02:23

Hopefully the girls of today will at least learn that bleeding from your vagina is normal and there are helpful products to deal with this inconvenience. I cannot see what the negative with the accurate advertising of tampons and sanitary pads are, other than the unfortunate discomfort of those of us who learned the internalised shame of menstruation. It really is time the 'get thee to a hut dirty women' line of thought was broken.

Sharina Mon 27-Feb-23 13:03:46

I’ve accepted lesbian kisses with no problem. I think we could all do without over the top pda. I do cringe during some of the sanitary towel adverts but that’s just a leftover from my own teenage years. But Viagra! There’s just no need!

Nellie54 Mon 27-Feb-23 13:06:46

More worrying are the constant adverts for gambling