Marydoll
^The programme made the point in a heartbreaking fashion that people with non-Covid problems were refused care because doctors had to ration the beds. One was a mother of a young family who was allowed to die because she had MS, and another was a man of 72 who was fit (walked 3 miles a day) and needed treatment for bowel cancer. He was refused life-saving treatment on the grounds of his age, although he could have had many years ahead of him.^
My 70yrs old RA consultant came out of retirement, because his replacement had been seconded to Covid ICU and could not take up his position.
He phoned me to tell me that if I caught Covid, I would not be admitted to hospital, because I would be taking up the bed of someone, who might have a fighting chance.
He then informed me that a DNR notice had been put on my file. It is still on file. Not exactly what you want to hear. I decided not to tell my family this news, because it would only distress them.
The same thing happened to my friend, who had a liver transplant, she is still fighting to get that notice removed.
Sadly I believe that is still happening - DNR's are something that should be discussed with the patient and their families but aren't being. My friend's mum found out her dad had a DNR slapped on him on admission and that it said in his notes that it had been discussed with his family, which it certainly wasn't! He's still batting on in his 90's thankfully and I believe they settled out of court ...
I think that the drama which included BoJo and Hancock spouting rubbish was very well done. These hospital trusts lie to save face (They've lied to me in the past, and one is likely to end up in a criminal court after the death of my best friend's husband (they are trying to settle out of court, but she won't!) Again he was barely 60 and they slapped a DNR on him on admission without any discussion. They missed his sepsis which they had caused by burning him using some new light therapy treatment for a skin condition. At least this was post initial Covid and she was allowed in to see what was going on and was able to take notes - it was awful for them all.
The people shown outside the hospital weren't anti-vaxxers as there wasn't a vaccine at that point - they were trying to say that the hospitals were empty, which I believe some were other than the Covid wards. Certainly there was no elective surgery going on. I was admitted late March 2020 with a serious kidney infection, and was put on a Covid ward as I coughed on admission - it turned out the 5 of us in that bay were all free of Covid. Good job 4 out of 5 of us were able to see to ourselves, and if it weren't for me, the poor old lady that couldn't do anything for herself opposite wouldn't have been fed or given a drink for the 5 days I was there - the nurses would not come in unless they absolutely had to! It was truly awful.
I do think that one of the worst things was the edict to empty hospital beds, and care homes were mandated to take elderly patients with respiratory and other illnesses regardless of their Covid status. The hospitals were told to discharge them immediately by PHE/Hancock (who threw a protective ring around them by not allowing anyone in to see what was going on) It ripped through these homes and 26,541 of our elderly relatives died alone in just one month, April 2020. The care homes at that point also had insufficient PPE just like the hospitals. Senior care staff were asked to certify deaths as the GP's wouldn't come out (but were getting the fee to do it!) they were expected to do it over Facetime!
Having had 24 lots of surgery and being left disabled, I am now TERRIFIED of having to go in again - it will be a bowel strangulation, and I know that a DNR will be slapped on me. It would be cheaper for them to leave my bowel to perforate, die and give me sepsis than to operate. I no longer trust them as they are still following protocols laid down by those at the top sadly and any less on the waiting lists will help the government ....