Well, perhaps one day next week, I'll let him have a go, and see how we get on. Then if any questions arise, I might start the ball rolling.
I can't do it from memory.
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When I say "do it" I mean, think of a question. Not........! (I can remember how that goes. I think.) 
See! I'm regretting this already.
We'll leave it to the lurkers.
Perhaps Trudy could let me know by next Wednesday please.
Perhaps forget the defibrillator and opt for a vibrator instead?
No! #lifeintheoldboyyet
Oh look! It is about "relationships" as well! Why do we only seem to have noticed the "sex" part? 
Oh yes! We can all have a good old moan about our DHs (again) and get some Expert Advice...
Yep! Make a change from dishing the advice out on here. 
Roll up folks! A real life agony Aunt!
Is no-body going to ask any questions? Is everyone too shy? Or perhaps no one has a problem? Perhaps I could set the balls rolling with a few sample questions, purely in the pubic interest, of course - I am admitting to nothing.
A. What to do if HE is still very keen and SHE has lost all interest?
B. What to do if SHE is still very keen and HE has lost all interest?
C. Is Viagra ever the answer?
D. Does a permanent catheter or vaginal atrophy mean - THIS IS THE END?
E. Can you explain why some couples who have been together 30/40/50 years cannot discuss matters sexual with each other?
F. What to do if the mind is willing but the flesh is weak?
G. If you lose your partner in later life do you just have to come to terms with celibacy?
Just trying to be practical here - hope no-one is offended
I can answer D - no! 
An open mind and a sense of humour help!
O M G ! Have you got both Kitty? 
scrub that! sorry.
#noseycow
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