The sexuality of people over a certain age seems to be something of a taboo subject - but not for esteemed French psychologist Marie de Hennezel.
In her new book, Sex After Sixty: a French guide to loving intimacy, she looks at how emotional intimacy plays a huge role in maintaining a sex life as you age and how knowing how to take pleasure as it comes, rather than focussing on what could be, can be the key to a more erotic and satisfying sexuality.
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Marie de Hennezel is the author of two ministerial reports about caring for those with terminal illnesses, and has written ten books about growing older, including the Sunday Times top-5 bestseller The Warmth of the Heart Prevents Your Body from Rusting. Her books have been translated into 22 languages.
From attending Tantric workshops to interviewing dozens of sexually active older people, de Hennezel looks at the role that sex plays in our health and sets out on a quest to discover how you can continue to enjoy a satisfying sex life into old age. She brings her insight as a psychotherapist - along with her Gallic joie de vivre and frankness - to bear on a subject that has been brushed under the carpet for too long. Having seen the sexual revolution first-hand in France in the 1960s and 70s, today de Hennezel - born in 1946 - argues that it's time for a new sexual revolution, one which acknowledges that sex is important at any stage of adulthood, and which embraces many different ways of making love. In a society saturated by online porn and 'hook-up culture', reflecting on intimacy and learning from those who know how to make it last is more important than ever, making her book essential reading for lovers of any age.
Hope it turns out well, specki - which ever way it goes. 
Im68Now - if I knew I was going to have car sex, I'd go out "Commando"!! Sod wriggling out of your knickers... 
I'm 58 and DH is 65 and I'm grateful that we have a lovely, regular sex life. Admittedly, his cancers have caused a bit of impotence and he struggles with a proper erection, but our wonderful, understanding GP has prescribed him little blue pills, so we still get enough to keep him happy!!
Personally, I'm a bit lazy in that department, but DH has always had a high sex drive, so I look forward to our "sessions".
I think it's true that we're children of the 60s and that makes life so much easier...
No questions for Marie, just my two penn'orth. 
Step one.
(for 68now)
As it's a question and answer topic, here's a question.
As many of us have had hip replacement surgery, what are the safe positions for sex for
a) operated men
b) operated women?
That is, as long both partners wish to participate.
We have a new car every 2 years and I must admit I've had better sessions, but OH enjoys it. Last April was the last change of cars and we listened to Radio 4 as well.
Don't Knock it Till You Try It
Do Gay people say that. 
We no longer dangle form the chandeliers either - plays havoc with the back. I've had car sex but not necessarily in a new car! 
As jayh said, people who are over 60 now were children of the 60s and we all talked about everything. Mind you, we should have talked more and done less then we might not have had 5 children.
Marthajolly1, I hope it goes really well for you and I hope you keep us informed of how the relationship (not just the sex!!) progresses.
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