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What was/is your job?

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absentgrana Fri 12-Aug-11 14:28:00

We all tend to define ourselves and others, to some extent, by current or former professions/careers/jobs. And it's funny how other people's jobs and careers often seem so much more impressive and deserving of respect than our own. I have been impressed with the perceptive and intelligent comments made on some threads by current or former nurses and teachers and have made a couple of guesses about other gransnetters' professional expertise. Do you still think of yourself as a whatever you were before you retired? Have you taken up a new career? Or are you, like me, still plodding away at something that you've been doing for thirty years or more?

Baggy Wed 17-Aug-11 09:45:41

Is teaching social work?

There's a thread title!

greenmossgiel Wed 17-Aug-11 09:50:13

What about yourself, jangly? As you want to know what we did/do, what did you do?

Charlotta Wed 17-Aug-11 11:15:30

Yes harrigran I agree about jangly I once decided once not to write on any thread where she/ he? had a lot to say, as I got fed up with it. But actually it is impossible. You would have to give up GRANSNET altogether. I might even do it but boredom with retirement drives me back to the computer.

crimson Wed 17-Aug-11 11:29:12

My best job was making candyfloss at a chip shop in Tintagel. Used to make them HUGE. Apologies to all the children whose teeth I ruined.....sorry confused.

Acheron Wed 17-Aug-11 11:32:53

Is trophy wife an acceptable job? Certainly not top management. Just asking....? smile

Baggy Wed 17-Aug-11 11:53:27

crimson says I'm the Voice of Reason. I'm boasting about that. blush I love my new job title. smile

crimson Wed 17-Aug-11 11:55:46

..but you don't get paid for it.....if only smile....

harrigran Wed 17-Aug-11 19:46:35

Iv'e cleaned bogs all my life jangly, that mundane enough ?

MaggieP Wed 17-Aug-11 19:59:00

Hello, just joined and like the Gransnet site and pleased to be part of it.
I was a nurse and then midwife for many years having 3 children during that time.
Now retired 7 yrs ago and seem to be always busy, enjoying two grandchildren who after 3 yrs in Dubai have returned to UK and now moved nearer to us which is great!
Husband and I enjoy walking the dogs, walking with a group of good friends with whom we also wine taste and holiday occasionally.etc etc. Not to mention seeing plenty of family, travelling and helping out with a Charity.

yogagran Wed 17-Aug-11 20:05:54

Welcome to you MaggieP hope you'll enjoy your time on GN. It seems as though you're making the most of retirement. Walking and wine tasting - that sounds a lovely mix! smile

greenmossgiel Wed 17-Aug-11 20:27:16

Hope you can walk straight after all that wine-tasting, MaggieP! Welcome! smile

glassortwo Wed 17-Aug-11 20:53:42

Hello MaggieP nice to meet you. smile

Sue61 Wed 17-Aug-11 21:49:54

I failed my 11+ and left school at 15 to be a hairdresser. Worked in top London salons in the 60s and loved it. Then decided to go back to school and did evening classes and eventually a degree in History and a PGCE to teach. Taught for 16 years and then set up my own business - an educational consultancy providing Professional Development for teachers. Mrs. Thatcher put paid to that with the introduction of a very restricted curriculum and 6years later moved into higher education and have been a teacher trainer for the past 20 years training primary school teachers and running professional development for teachers. Did my doctorate - driven by 11+ failure - wanted to prove them wrong. Semi-retired this year and set up educational consultancy business (again). I am just passionate about education and can't see myself ever retiring properly. Sending this fro holiday in Nice where I'm reading more books on teaching!

glammanana Wed 17-Aug-11 22:04:15

Welcome MaggieP you will enjoy yourself here i promise you,but you should have kept it quiet about the wine tasting,you'll be sorry !!! slurp-slurp

Notsogrand Wed 17-Aug-11 22:20:23

Hello MaggieP, nice to meet you! I think quite a few of us on here are wine tasters too. grin

Baggy Wed 17-Aug-11 22:41:11

Well, sue61, I think that proves once and for all what a stupid test the 11+ was! smile

harrigran Wed 17-Aug-11 22:43:07

Welcome MaggieP never a dull moment on here, cheers wine

jangly Wed 17-Aug-11 22:59:27

Charlotta - Whatever do you mean by your remark. I have been out all day and just popped on here before going to bed just to see what's been going on.

And I saw that!!

Please don't think of leaving Gransnet because of me. I have never been horrible to you. I assure you I am not a man! I am a granny to two grandsons who are very dear to me.

I thought I had friends on here.

I don't think Harrigrqn meant it. Of course I'm a real person.

I really don't understand. sad

GadaboutGran Thu 18-Aug-11 10:39:06

What's this thing about a MAIN JOB? Don't we women multi-task and do things differently. I had four threads of activity - all equally important and inter-related - Being a mum to three (and now a grandmother); Voluntary work, formal and informal types; Paid work (though often still expected to do things for nothing); education/personal development. I had a main thread of Education and Community through each strand but consider my career was like a carousel - round about and up and down with different 'mains' at different times.
For the last 24 years however I was always known as the 'Disaster' Lady.
Now I'm redefined again as a 'Company Director' for son-in-law's business because he has Adult ADHD (see other thread) & needs constant micro-management! Still it feels better than putting retired on forms.
Incidentally, you don't have to be an 11+ failure to feel a failure. From humble beginnings I got to a top University (they must have made a mistake!) and have always felt a failure, even after getting a PhD - & still do.

harrigran Thu 18-Aug-11 11:32:54

Of course I didn't mean it, I am ribbing jangly We have been on Gransnet for long enough to know there is a lot of tongue in cheek going on grin

jangly Thu 18-Aug-11 11:36:04

I know Harrigran. smile

jangly Thu 18-Aug-11 11:39:01

I don't wanna know Green!

I didn't start the flipping thread!

absent did.

Blame her.

wink (in case you take it seriously, which I know you won't)

jangly Thu 18-Aug-11 11:39:48

I just stuck my oar in.

Like you do.

absentgrana Thu 18-Aug-11 11:53:53

I did indeed start this thread and have been so impressed with all the things that people have done in their lives. My initial sentence has certainly been vindicated, if that were necessary, by posts that start "I was only…" when, in fact, they have been valuable contributors to society and are clearly sensible, capable women today. (That's come out slightly patronising and I didn't mean to be.)

jangly You know what I do for a living as it cropped up on another thread. I write and edit non-fiction, mainly cookbooks, but also on some other subjects. Like many jobs, it has its moments of satisfaction, even pleasure, but mostly it's just nose to the grindstone and, literally, slaving over a hot stove.

I have managed to fit in various volunteer jobs from time to time such as teaching English to non-English-speaking immigrants in their homes. Best lesson ever was when the whole family joined in the mum's lesson – granny, grandpa, dad and four or five children in one tiny bedroom – and we played Happy Families. The intention was to get please and thank you as automatic responses and, if you forgot, you missed your turn. It was also a way to learn words such as butcher, baker, etc. It was so successful that I left the pack of cards for them to play with and was waved off with everyone shouting thank you.

MaggieP Thu 18-Aug-11 12:28:42

Thanks for all your good welcome wishes, I will raise a glass to you next time there is one in my hand!