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To work or not to work?

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ayse Wed 18-Dec-13 15:17:15

I've been wondering for about 2 months now whether to leave work early, 6 months before official my retirement date. I'm very fortunate in that I have enough savings to see me and DH through to September or October without difficulty. I also want to go and visit my family in NZ and Australia in the spring if possible. My oldest daughter (NZ) suffers from psoriatic arthritis and I suspect she is a deal of pain although she minimises it to me. She intimated she wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the children, although she may just have been feeling pretty low at the time.
As well as this DH is 7 years older than me and I would like to have the summer with him after my exams in June - you never know what is round the corner.
Of course, the sensible bit of me says stay at work until the retirement date and maybe hang onto the job for as long as possible (although the job is tedious in the extreme)
Your take on this would be very welcome hmm

Mishap Wed 18-Dec-13 15:31:26

Check out your pension situation!

Charleygirl Wed 18-Dec-13 15:31:52

I personally worked until I received the maximum state pension and also my private pension- it was either 39 or 40 years. I have been on my own since before I retired.

If I were in your shoes, I would grin and bear it for the next 6 months and even beyond if you could. It is not the savings that you have now, it is 5 years + down the line that you have to think about. Also could you cope financially on your own with the reduced pension?

tanith Wed 18-Dec-13 15:33:18

If it's financially not a problem then I'd say go for it, and enjoy the Summer doing things you will enjoy, as you say you never know what's round the next corner.

ayse Wed 18-Dec-13 15:36:30

Well, last time I contacted the pension people they said I had enough for a full pension (about 3 years ago). I also have a small civil service pension (15 years service) already in payment and of course, at the moment there is DH's pension as well. I should have mentioned this in my previous mail. Thank you for your thoughts though

tiggypiro Wed 18-Dec-13 16:13:41

The only drawback to retirement (I was lucky to get redundancy at 57) as far as I can see is that when you are retired YOU NEVER GET A DAY OFF !!
If you can afford it then go for it.

Anne58 Wed 18-Dec-13 17:54:08

Oh how I wish that that working or not working was a choice! Not working at present, will not get my pension until I'm 66 (currently 55), job hunting, so far fruitlessly, large mortgage, 3 cats to support.............

Does anyone remember the "Colin Baker, News at Ten" classic?

janeainsworth Wed 18-Dec-13 19:05:03

Do you mean this one Phoenix?
It's the second clip I thinkgrin
www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3M-BS47UHQ

Anne58 Thu 19-Dec-13 00:42:40

Yes, jane that's the Colin Baker one, although I think that there may be another longer one somewhere where rants on about mortgage, and expounds on the "pissed off" bit, children etc.

I remember exdh and I would at times say that we were having a "Colin Baker" moment! tchgrin

rockgran Thu 19-Dec-13 07:36:48

Retiring was the best decision I made. We dithered for a while but were both very unhappy at work. My husband thought we would have to wait quite a while to retire but I did the sums down to the last penny and worked out that if we lived very frugally we could "get our lives back". We took the plunge and have been amazed at how little we need to live very well indeed. I know everyone has different circumstances and needs but don't wait too long. Life is too short to be spending it doing something you find tedious. Start doing the things you want to do now. I don,t mean to be depressing but several of our friends have lost a spouse quite early and wished they had had more quality time together. Go for it, I say.

J52 Thu 19-Dec-13 07:55:57

I agree with Rockgran. Go for it. Enjoy every moment of retirement. Our generation have different opportunities in the latter, non working years. I hate the "R" word. The world is out there, go and enjoy it, if you can. Do not miss out on anything, large and small!
Amongst my friends, I do not know anyone who regrets leaving work to enjoy their life!
You will also have more time to look after yourself. None of us know what is in the future. Enjoy the wonderful trip to NZ. X

grannyactivist Thu 19-Dec-13 08:30:00

Mostly due to intermittent illness I've not been in paid employment for quite a while now. My husband is ten years younger than me (I'm 60, he's 50) so I doubt we'll have much retirement time together as he will work until he's 67. I seize every opportunity to spend time with him now because we don't know what tomorrow will bring. In your shoes I'd retire without hesitation if it can be afforded.

ayse Thu 19-Dec-13 10:55:21

Thank you all for your comments - I'm still not quite sure but I think I will go for it although I won't be making up my mind until the end of February or alternatively if I want to book a ticket to NZ. I detect two different streams of thought here and this reflects my two states of mind - to go or not to go
Still it's good to have all your thoughts, so thank you very much smile smile