We retired 10 years ago. I was 60. Himself 62. No regrets. We weren’t eligible for out state pensions so we worked out our sums on the back of an envelope. Divvied up our ‘lump sums’ into monthly allowances to last us the 6y to state pensions kicking in.
My NHS pension is tiny (I didn’t join it for years, silly me). Himself had to forfeit 7% of his private pension for each year he retired early so that was 21% less of a lump sum and then the annual amount. It would have given us a better income but less ‘time’ but we have enough for our needs and have absolutely no regrets. Especially so as he is now on palliative chemotherapy treatment.
What suits one couple may well not suit another. Decisions have to be made after talking things over. We jotted down every possible outgoing - even dentist, hygienist, car service * MOT, petrol (we knew we couldn’t afford another and ours is an 18 year old Peugeot), birthday and Christmas presents, utilities. All I can suggest is look at all the financial ramifications of retiring early, struggling would bring its own stress and you can’t buy peace of mind. Then, after careful consideration if you feel you can live well enough, I wouldn’t hesitate.
Lack of choice brings its own stress. If you can only afford a cheese sandwich you’d yearn for a steak dinner but conversely, if you have the money for a steak dinner you don’t mind choosing a cheese sandwich! It’s when you can’t afford something you’d like problems occur.
Make sure your wants are less than your needs.