Hi, Im looking for some advice, my mum has always had a problem with my childrens father. We havent spoken to each other for 6 months, through her own choice. It would not be this way if it was down to me. I have 2 sons, aged 4 and 21 months. For the whole past 6 months she has had little to do with my 4 year old and nothing to do with my youngest. She has asked to see my 4 year old a couple of times but not my youngest. The first time i allowed this but the 2nd time i wouldnt let her if she didnt have contact with both of my boys. Now she is going to a solicitor saying that i wont let her have contact with either. this is not the case, i just want her to see both of them and treat them equally. she has already admitted to my grandmother that she didnt bond with my youngest the same way as my oldest son. In the past we have had disagreements about my childrens father, but i have never ever stopped her seeing the boys because she has always treated them the same and fairly. Now all of a sudden she doesnt want anything to do with my youngest. Her reasons for not having him are that she doesnt have the time to have them both, she works part time, saturday is her house cleaning day, her new puppy is dangerous to be around the youngest and that she wouldnt spend enough time with her husband because he only has one day a week, on a sunday, to spend time with her at home. Her husband has always been like a grandfather to my children as my real dad lives abroad. What i have suggested is that she takes both of the children to an activity center, away from the puppy, and instead of wasting time and money on a solicitor, spend that time and money on the boys. Before we stopped speaking she had brought both the boys some new clothes but then refused to let them have them so that my partner and I didnt benefit. I dont need her charity, both boys go without nothing, but i think most of this is through her own pettiness and spite at me for not picking a partner that she thinks is suitable. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated as I would like to know what can be done to stop it going as far as solicitors, courts etc as i dont want my boys or myself to go through all of this. Thank you in advance
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