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Tiny Tots Graduating ... what do YOU think?

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JulieMM Fri 19-Jul-19 12:26:30

This week my little 3 year old grandson ‘Graduated’ from Nursery. He’s a bright lad but had no idea what was going on, wearing a cap and gown and being handed a certificate. The photos taken show the puzzlement in most of the faces there and I felt quite sorry for them! I know a lot of primary schools do this now but at least those kids know what’s going on and can enjoy all the preparations and excitement if they choose to go. But these little tots looked quite bewildered! Am I being old fashioned?

FarNorth Mon 22-Jul-19 10:14:20

My DGD went to Nursery up to 3, then Pre-school at a different time of day in the same building, until 5.

Callistemon Mon 22-Jul-19 10:15:08

I can't say she would have looked bewildered though! grin
Had they had a ceremony I think she would have known full well what was happening, having spent a couple of 'taster days' in school and would have had a big beam on her face.

MawBroonsback Mon 22-Jul-19 10:34:14

That’s interesting Callistemon, DGD will be 5 on 30 August so could by rights have started school a year ago but DD and SIL decided to keep her at nursery for another year as they felt she would be too you g. It didn’t help that the decision had had to be made the previous December when she was just 3 but I think and hope it will have been the right decision for her - although being honest, perhaps admission half way through the academic year would have been ideal. As the youngest o three, , she might have coped with older children in her class, but we think it will do her good not to be the youngest for once in her life!

Callistemon Mon 22-Jul-19 10:51:48

DS and DIL did make enquiries, Maw but the rule here is that, if they are held back a year, then they join school in Y1 and have to miss reception year.
They were assured that, as much of reception is play-based, she would be fine and she has been.
She started school with friends she had made in pre-school and they will all be moving up to senior school together in September.

Callistemon Mon 22-Jul-19 10:54:19

Ps so she would have been moving up to senior school anyway, the only difference being that she would have missed the reception year at primary school.

The rules seem very rigid in some areas re summer-born children.

Lessismore Tue 23-Jul-19 11:24:15

I had a friend with a daughter who was just 4 when she started Reception....her birthday was August 28th.
My little 4 year old had an utterly miserable time in Reception, it's so sad, poor wee things.

I read now they are to be tested.

Callistemon Tue 23-Jul-19 11:56:13

I suppose it depends on the school and the child. Mine has loved it!

Daddima Tue 23-Jul-19 14:39:10

I saw a post ( one of those’ proud mummy moments’ ones ) on Facebook showing the child graduating from reception class. Surely that’s instead of the nursery ones, and not as well as?