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petunia Thu 13-Sep-18 07:30:55

I do the school run 2-3 times a week for GC1,now 5 and in year 1. This new school term, as I walk past the reception class to pick up, I’ve noticed two mothers in the crowd picking up their children. Both, seemingly not connected to each other, use “baby” slings to ferry their reception children to and from school. Both women heft their offspring onto their backs and set off on the walk home. It looks a bit strange to see a 4-5 year old bobbing along, in full school uniform, held onto their mother’s back by a gaily coloured cloth sling. I suppose the mothers should be commended for not clogging up the local roads with cars but is this a thing now? Using slings to carry quite large children? For me, I’d think very hard about doing a school run that involved carrying GC1 for half a mile or so.

Jalima1108 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:36:25

no, it's not infantilising a 4-5 year old to pick them up - you are twisting what I said. 'Pick them up for a couple of minutes' - fine

Carrying them home from school in a sling is though.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:36:58

You never see kids going in car seats, bike seats/trailers or buggy boards MissAdventure? You only ever see them running? Really?

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:40:04

Where do you all live that all kids run home? EVERYWHERE I've lived there's been battles between people who live in streets surrounding schools and parents who double park across their drives in order to take kids home in car seats!

Jalima1108 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:40:47

4 year olds need cuddles?
Really? Who'd have thought it!

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:40:58

I see that all the time, of course.
I haven't ever seen a child in a sling beyond about 18 months of age.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:43:07

no, it's not infantilising a 4-5 year old to pick them up - you are twisting what I said. 'Pick them up for a couple of minutes' - fine

Maybe home is just a couple if minutes, and the kid likes a pre/post school cuddle before getting down to play.

What is it about it that BOTHERS you so much..seems such an odd thing to judge "just LOOK at that woman holding her child!". Weird.

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:44:39

It doesn't bother me at all.
To each their own.
Its just a discussion, and I still think its weird.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:44:46

I see that all the time, of course.
So they DON'T all run "all day". And there are plenty who apparently aren't up to walking home.

Why is that okay if they go in car seats after school instead of slings?

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:45:51

More fresh air in a sling Vs a car seat

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:46:41

Because a car takes the weight.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:47:01

Better for the environment. And parent's health & pocket to walk with a sling rather than drive the tired child home from school.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:48:35

Because a car takes the weight.
??
Thats....Um..the point of the sling too...it disperses the weight. Easier than carrying in arms/on shoulders.

Spread weight & it feels lighter

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:49:09

Walking is just as beneficial.

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:50:52

I wouldn't want the weight of a small child dispersed so I could carry them.
I would use a buggy if they really couldn't manage to walk.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 20:53:14

I wouldn't want the weight of a small child dispersed so I could carry them
No problem. Nobody is making slings compulsary

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 20:54:41

Its ok. I haven't got a small child anyway. grin

Beau Sun 16-Sep-18 21:58:25

No way on earth would I carry a 4 year old in a sling - my 21 month old DGS is heavy enough in his papoose and I can't even lift the new back carrier we got for 'proper' walking - my daughter struggles with it but she just about manages. My SIL reckons he put his back out today by carrying said 21 month old up and down stairs a few times ?
I just read a 2017 DM online article about this 'older child in a sling' phenomenon (which I had never seen or heard of) and all I will say is it's done by exactly the sort of women I would expect to do it ?

MissAdventure Sun 16-Sep-18 21:59:49

Its called baby wearing.

notanan2 Sun 16-Sep-18 22:11:39

my 21 month old DGS is heavy enough in his papoose and I can't even lift the new back carrier we got for 'proper' walking

Those type of slings add weight IMO. They even make newborns feel heavy!

Wrap or tie type ones make babies/kids feel lighter and are much more comfortable

Jalima1108 Sun 16-Sep-18 22:57:27

I hope DGD2 isn't reading this thread. I don't want her getting any ideas
grin

Mind you, she's slightly older than that, rushes round the play park after school, walks home then leaps around on the trampoline.
No wonder she's a skinny bean.