Cancelled, it sounds as if you have a similar situation to mine, as I said before she has mental health issues, but some of the texts she writes to me and our 91 year old mother, are so unbelievably unpleasant and nasty, you would wonder if we were actually related to this person at all. She also refuses to pull her weight with regard to our elderly mother, with the result that earlier this year, my mother made the enormous decision for a person her age, to move 250 miles to be near us. She now lives in a sheltered apartment a few minutes from us, and we do all the care etc. I know our mother is quite demanding, but I could never abandon her as my sister did when Mum lived near to her.