My daughter, granddaughter and me used to do everything together. We'd go to shows, cinema, days out to the safari park, farms, shopping - you name it we did it. They would sometimes meet me from at the bus stop when I came home from work and come to our house for a few hours. Even when DGD was older we all did lots of stuff. We would also have nights out/meals with DD and son-in-law. I couldn't wait to retire so that we could do much more together. As soon as I retired, it all stopped. I couldn't figure it out and was upset and hurt. If I asked DD to meet up or something she was always busy. We hadn't had a fall out, it just happened. DD had made a new set of friends and DGD has lots of activities in her life so has to be ferried around etc. Unfortunately, I felt so upset and sidelined that I 'had a go' at my daughter. I regret it. She is just getting on with her life. Fortunately things are better now and we do see a lot of them so I have come to realise that's how it is. Try to go with the flow, not easy but you will all be happier.