I am a parent of an only child and now a new grandmother. I need some advice on how to maintain a good relationship with my son and daughter in law so I will be able to spend quality time with my new grandson. With us having an only child , I was by no means ready for the moving out bit . One day he went to house sit for the in laws and basically never came back. He would come and go but wasn't the same. So I didn't really get to deal with that whole situation. He moved in to their home and lived there. Which I was ok with to a certain point because of his job. He worked for them and had to get up really early for work and it was a half hour drive there from where we lived and we did have some close calls with him falling asleep on his way there. So needless to say we did not see him much. Empty nest syndrome really bad to say the least. They were married in October 2019 and had there own home. That following March they found out they were going to have a baby. I was so excited for that first grandchild, little did I know I have been crying more than enjoying being a new grandma. Every time we make plans, which this has been going on all along, we always seem to get pushed aside for other things. So, of course I get angry. I have not said anything to them because I don't want to cause any hard feelings that may keep me from seeing my grandson. We work five days a week and the only time we get to spend with them is on the weekends. Our son works late so us stopping on the way home from work isn't always feasible. We have tried planning days with just us, but again after plans are made, we get pushed aside for something going on with the in laws. I am afraid that our grandson is not even going to know who we are or even care. I have tried to plan days to have with them and him, for that quality time, but it isn't working like I had hoped. It is causing me to be very jealous of the in laws, which I do not like because they are very nice people and have done a lot for our son, because of the time they are with our son and grandson. Can anyone give me some advice on how to handle all of this so I have that great relationship with my son and daughter in law and my grandson?
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