My younger sister and I have always been very close and we have remained so despite living in different countries for over 30 years now .
However , in the last 2 or 3 years ,and this has nothing to do with covid , I have felt that she is becoming more and more distant .
So where once she would phone and text quite often , I find that I am the one texting a lot and she does reply but never initiates connection
We do speak on the phone once a week on average but again this is less than it used to be
Before Covid started , I wanted to go and visit her but she always found a reason why I shouldn’t come and so I haven’t been to her house for nearly 3 years
I feel very hurt by this , it does hurt me and I don’t understand it and I don’t know what to do about it , how to handle her ?
If I try and talk to her , it will probably end in a big fallout which I don’t want
Any ideas would be welcome as this situation is making me very depressed
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