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Child car seats !

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grannylyn65 Thu 15-Oct-15 18:55:39

Myself and my friend (seaoned Grans! ) have just spent nearly an hour trying to harness wriggling toddler into infernal contraption aka known as car seat. Neither of us having a degree in mechanics we found it nearly impossible to work out which bit went where, and were only saved by passing mother. Neither of us can remember seats being si complicated, or are we past it !!!!!

Bellanonna Sat 28-Nov-15 13:52:37

Yes grannylyn! I keep making it shorter too. Had to get DD to sort out the right length before I collected GS the other night. Thankfully she had a problem too.smile

grannylyn65 Sat 28-Nov-15 14:42:11

At least that makes you feel a little less than an idiot!! DS managed to 'unfix' his own DS car seat, he showed remarkable restraint, so as to speak!!!

overthehill Sat 28-Nov-15 21:08:20

Well we bought a pushchair and car seat in the hopes of getting used to them and making it an easier operation.

We have mastered the pushchair as it was on the lines of the old style buggy that we had for our own children. Mind you it generally takes both DH and myself to erect it and do up DGD who does her best to undo all the straps.

The car seat is another mission. It can take 10 mins or so just putting that in the car let alone DGD in it. Because we don't have her on a regular basis we forget between times how it goes. I have now managed to persuade DH to leave it in the car so that alleviates one problem.

Iam64 Tue 01-Dec-15 08:53:55

This is such a reassuring thread. We have a pushchair for the days we look after our precious one. All went well until I added one of those snuggle warm things for him to sit in. How to get the push chair reigns through the various holes, how to extend them so they're long enough to fit through the various places they're supposed to fit. I made the mistake of putting the baby into the snuggle thing before I'd worked out how to do the reigns. Crying baby, hopeless gran, grandad called in as emergency fixer and he was baffled as well.
I had to remove the car seat over the weekend because I was designated driver for a group of friends. I am so not looking forward to putting the thing back grin

vegasmags Tue 01-Dec-15 09:05:26

I go down to London every fortnight to do 2 days childcare and so I take my DGD out and about whilst I'm there. Getting on a London bus with the pushchair is such a strain and a stress. I take the little one to Messy Play one morning and was asked, nay commanded, by the scary lady in charge to fold up the pushchair so as to leave more room for others - although there was tons of room. I replied feebly that I didn't know how to do it, so she gave me a patronising smile and said: 'Do you think you could learn how to do it for next time?' Grrrrrr.

grannylyn65 Tue 01-Dec-15 10:10:00

I admit I was surprised when this thread took off, I really thought it was just me, and I honestly panicked when I couldn't fasten b? straps
Watced Dil achieve in micro seconds
Thank heaven no pushchairs involved!
Many years ago I had to wrestle 2 toddlers
on w i d e double buggy onto a country bus to go shopping!!!

tiggypiro Tue 01-Dec-15 11:02:25

I borrowed a pushchair for 2yr old GS in the summer from my niece. I returned it to her so she could lend it to a friend. I am so glad I wasn't there when she gave it to her friend and, on showing her how it all worked, found a mouldy partly eaten sandwich in the folded up hood !!

Iam64 Tue 01-Dec-15 11:24:48

vegasmags, sounds like a queue to become a muddled gran and suggest the patronising scary woman the job of collapsing it. Just say it's beyond you and smile sweetly (I know I know, doesn't come easily to us but I'm sure we could develop it where necessary)

Indinana Tue 01-Dec-15 11:35:06

As DD doesn't drive, I'm the one who has the car seat permanently in my car, so I am now, after 5 months, thoroughly familiar with it. However, getting it off the isofix base can be very challenging as it has to be held with one hand on the hood end with thumb on top and all four fingers pulling up a bar just under the hood to release the mechanism. With my arthritic hands, this manoeuvre is simply impossible sometimes. Even my DD, with no arthritis whatsoever, sometimes finds this tricky.

Iam64 Tue 01-Dec-15 13:28:17

That's another Good Point Indinana. My daughter and her partner spent a lot on their pram, not least because the car seat can be fitted into it, making shopping trips (they hoped) easier. I can't remove the seat from the isofix base and my daughter, like yours, finds it tricky.

Why oh why is 'stuff' getting more complicated rather than easier.

On a different tack we had real difficulty finding CD/radio type electrical equipment for our elderly mothers. Many of them seemed to require you to have a perfect memory and excellent eye sight in order to listen to a talking book.

grannylyn65 Tue 01-Dec-15 13:38:29

I have honed to perfection the puzzled, slighty pathetic and elderly personna!!

grannylyn65 Thu 03-Mar-16 08:15:30

Udate! dgs has grown out of it and I have purchased a new, simpler one!!!!!grin

Indinana Thu 03-Mar-16 08:46:35

Haha! Mine too grannylyn. Oh what a relief to be free of that dreadful rear facing baby seat.

In fact, we went back to Mothercare because finally the seat became permanently fixed to the isofix base and no-one could release it. I was about to change my car and needed to get the dratted thing out of it! After much struggling and phone calls to the manufacturer, the assistant at MC managed to release it, but not without a nasty bruise to her knuckles shock. So we got a full refund in the form of a gift card (over £200).

And then as luck would have it, our son was replacing his 2.5 year old's car seat as he'd grown out of it, so we now have that one, a Britax model which is the one recommended by Ford for my car! Never mind all the warnings about second hand car seats - I know this one's history, less than 2 years old and never been in a collision of any sort.

So the gift card is gradually being spent on both my daughter's little girl and my son's little boy when they need something. Perfect smile

Elrel Fri 04-Mar-16 02:03:51

This brings back memories! Buying a pushchair in 1964, when we were expected to fold them on buses ( even if the baby was too small to stand or asleep) I wouldn't leave the shop until I had successfully folded and unfolded it without help. The assistant found this very amusing. It took about half an hour.
My daughter once struggled for 20 minutes to get her stiffened son into his car seat. Later she was told or read that there's a remedy: blow on their tummy!!
Doing nursery duty I totally failed to uncouple pram body from base. So did nursery staff and several mothers. Relieved to find I wasn't the only one!

grannylyn65 Fri 04-Mar-16 08:33:54

Why are these things so complicated!!!confused