Hi new here. So desperate for advice I started googling and found you guys, so hoping someone can give some advice đ
My son is estranged from his ex partner. They have a six year old child. There is a child arrangement order in place, which my son follows to the T. He is a hands on dad and dotes on his son. His ex partner is hard work. She puts so many stipulations and obstacles in place but we as a family just deal with them, for the sake of child (wonât say his name). However it seems this isnât enough. She phones and is vile and abusive. She says that child goes back to hers with attitude, rude and aggressive and blames us. When child is with us he is a good boy. No rudeness, definitely not aggressive. He is a normal child. We donât spoil him. We follow her diet restrictions so no sweets, juice, junk food. We are positive around him. If he speaks about his âother familyâ we talk highly of them. If he gets gifts we always get her other son something (from new relationship). He laughs and plays just like a normal child. Yet she basically saying he goes back to hers a monster and says âyour inbred familyâ (we are not). The things she says in front of the child is heartbreaking. What can I do? Where can I go to find out if we are doing something wrong? My son has spoken to the school and they have no issues either. I just want my grandson to just have a peaceful life but her hatred for my son and us is just unimaginable. We have never had a bad word and got on well when they were together. I have tried to help her and I can honestly say I have never been negative, abusive towards her. Any advice would be so welcomed.
Forgetting where you left your keys does not mean you are âlosing itâ
Harry and Meghan âroyalâ tour of Nigeria.