sunseeker I used to be treated like this but now put myself first and my plans and unless someone is phoning from a hospital bed, then an arrangement can be made for another day. I have had to toughen up, I was a walk over. One "friend" used to call on a Sunday for me to take him to work in the car and ever since he moved house, I've never seen him! Taker! My ED's friends would want a party at our house at the drop of a hat and I always gave in regardless of what I wanted to be doing.
No, not like that now. My DS doesn't get away with the same as my plans come first and if I want the house to ourselves then he is not allowed friends back, just for that night or whatever. I'm getting a new car soon and apart from me and my own family using it, then I am not a taxi for anyone else from now on. Saying no is the best thing to do, probably not all the time but enough so that people know that you are not a walk over and will do whatever they ask. Put yourself first from now on. You are worth it.