@Norah@ I am an economist and one of the things that you learn in economics is that it is best if every household/ country concentrates of doing those things that it does best.
So in our household we have always worked to our strengths rather than our weaknesses, I also note that you and your DH run a business together from where you live, which again puts a different complex on how you live.
I am married to a person whose work took them away from home, often at short notice - three or four hours - for indeterminate periods of time, could be days, weeks, months. The children and I often barely saw DH between March and September.
As a result, if we were to have a family and any communal life someone was needed to run the family business. So that is what I did. I see myself as being the equivalent of the Steward in a country house, not the house keeper, the steward.
When DH was home he did a lot of DIY. he is a skilled engineer both physically and mentally, and his skills over the years have made it possible for us to buy houses and improve them until we reached our ideal house, an old Listed period property on a village street where we have lived for nearly 30 years.
I have dyspraxia and ADHD and no one in their right mind would expect me to do any DIY. I am always willing to help and I am a dab hand at splashing paint everywhere. But by common agreement anything to do with house or cars are DH's remits and he loves it,
On the other hand I am a good organiser so I run everything elsefrom house to finances, to everything else. And I am a clever cook - not a good cook, a clever cook. I specialise in casseroles and stews and interesting combinations of food that please and satisfy people - and what greater purpose can someone preparing a meal have? DH has little interest in cooking and when I am away subsists on takeaways and tinned beans.
Each of us concentrates on what we do best. He builds extensions, rewires houses, installs kitchens. I run the family business. I love food and make sure that I get lots of delicious meals from interesting recipes.
From childhood, you have led a very different life to mine, in every way. However it does not mean that you have led a better or more superior life, neither practically nor morally or more equal. It has just been a different life based on your very different circumstances to mine.
So will you please stop slapping me down and trying to prove to yourself, and no doubt others, how superior your life and life style are to mine. They aren't. Just different.