I’ve hesitated to post this, but I don’t want to tell anyone I know, as she always comes across as a polite, rather shy child.
We’ve always had fun with her and her older sister, they are 8 and 10yrs. Usual baking, silly games, some I make up myself, I’ve put together a craft box for her, and buy clothes from the charity shop for them to dress up in, that sort of thing..I’ve never made them do any of these things, just when they want to.
For the past few months I don’t get a hug from her when they arrive and leave, even if I ask, though DH gets one. I’ve been at my son and dil’s house when the other grandparents arrive and it’s all excitement, hugs, sitting on knees, chattering away. I expect the gds to be a bit nearer to their maternal grandma, as she lives near to them and they lived with them for a while, but even so.
When she’s alone with me she frowns all the time, and can’t get away fast enough to be with someone else. She runs away when I ask her what’s wrong.
She was so rude to me on Christmas Eve afternoon, I almost cried, and wanted to leave. DS told her off, then she scowled at me all afternoon and wouldn’t speak to me.
I’ve never seen her behave like this with anyone else. She’s well behaved at home ( as much as any 8yr) affectionate to her parents and sister. She is doing well at school and has lots of friends who she doesn’t fall out with.
Only thing is, I’ve got 2 areas of scoliosis and 4 vertebrae fractured like a pack of cards. It doesn’t bother me health wise, but when I see back views of myself on photos, my back looks awful, I’ve lost 4 inches in height, so my back doesn’t look great cosmetically.
I just wonder if she just doesn’t like me physically. I don’t want to start trying too hard with her. I know she’s only 8 yrs old, but I can’t help feeling hurt.
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