Grams2five
I doubt she doesn’t care. It’s likely just a defense mechanism as she tries to process her own grief at the diagnosis. If she otherwise engages I wouldn’t take it personally or try to force information about it on her. While I’m sure some support from her would feel good we have to accept that sometimes our ac aren’t the support we need or that they’re able to give. Some people are fully engage and face it head on , take charge people and others need to disassociate somewhat to manage their own emotions. Neither is wrong just different
I agree.
Everyone processes in their own way and not everyone wants to talk on and on. I'd never assume poorly. I'm quiet, taught our children same, and would think they were just pondering alone.
Eg: I answered a post, today. Later thought after "how in the world do I know anything that personal, why was I told?"
Privacy and managing one's own emotions - well done.