12 months ago my daughter, hubby and their one year old daughter came back from a month long holiday to Brazil and confessed they were in 9k worth of debt and could no longer afford to stay in their house. We agreed they could come and stay in a small outbuilding we have, one bedroom with a kitchenette and at our expense put a bathroom in for them. I said I would help out with childcare for my beautiful granddaughter while they tried to get themselves out of the mess they are in. They have lived with us nine months and I’m not going to lie, it’s been hard, we’ve given my daughter part time work, sorted her husband out with a van for work after he lost his job at Xmas,on hand at the drop off a hat to babysit, she does agency work too so I need to be available with an hours notice. Yesterday after taking them out for dinner for Mother’s Day, she announced she’s pregnant (planned)and is absolutely furious that I didn’t seem happy enough at the prospect. They currently have £5 to last them 3 weeks and 2 adults and 2 children will be living in a one bedroom studio. She screamed at how selfish I was and that I just don’t want to look after a newborn and a 2 year old when she returns to work
I really don’t think I’m selfish but she’s right, I don’t want to look after both while she returns to work to continue trying to pay off their debts. I still have a teenage daughter at home who, I have a fourty mile round trip to take her to college, we have horses that take a lot of looking after and I also work part time. Feeling very sad today at her comments
Weight loss tips for DH please