Ramblingrose, I totally agree with what you say, I tend to be ok talking to people, I never give a lot away about myself as I never feel interesting enough and never want to come across as a moaner or make people feel miserable. I suppose in one sense what I do know about myself is that I am a people pleaser and just for once I need to please myself for a change. It just goes to show though that this problem is more common than you think. I also don't want to avoid certain social situations, I am happy to say no if I genuinely don't fancy it but a lot of the time I would like to go with the flow. Life is too short to be fretting all the time, you never know what's round the corner, if my head and heart could synchronise then all would be better.
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