I felt quite affronted when David Willett's declared a few years ago that the post-war generation had benefitted from so much and he, or at least those reporting on his book/speech, made out that we had stolen the futures of the next generation. Yes, we are a very fortunate generation benefitting from the NHS, free University education, good schools (some of us), pensions at 60, no world wars (yet) etc etc., owning our own houses early (some of us). This allowed the social mobility that politicians are now trying to recreate.
What should we have done? Foreseen the future? Said no thank you to a University grant or I won't make a profit on my house in a rising market in case it looks unfair to the next generation in 40 years time?
His words have given some of the next generation the perfect excuse to blame us and shift responsibility from their own shoulders. They forget that, at least in my case, we had few of the opportunities they have had while growing up - no holidays, no TV, record player, car etc, no multiple Gap years, often no careers of our choice, lower wages than men in the same jobs, poor childcare, working hard with little time for going out, not buying things until they could be afforded, University education for only a few, no extended adolescence into your 30s, poor contraception and/or strict moral upbringings leading to the social norm for marrying early or suffering social stigma if you got pregnant if unmarried. If we went wrong anywhere it was probably wanting our kids to have opportunities and things we didn't have. Looking at the fortunes of my friends' offspring, some have more material wealth than we had, but at a greater cost to family life, while others have far less and are being rescued in the family version of the Big Society - the bank, supermarket, travel service, advice agency, childcare service etc of Mum & Dad. The changes in fortunes are a matter of fact that we all have to take responsibility for sorting out now, not a matter of blame of one generation by another. What are the current generation meant to be predicting about their children's fortunes in 30 years time? Will they be blamed for having grandparents who retired 'young' & were available for childcare?
Interestingly, I'm just back from Germany where the same arguments are being made about inter-generational injustice.