I think by not inviting DIL, you would be doing exactly what she wants. To show she has been slighted in some way. Your DD would be better to be magnanimous and invite them all, DIL would not be in any position to be upset. As has been said, it's your DD decision but if she can step back and see what's happening she might be able to see it's the right thing to do. Weddings can be very stressful and even my 'laid back' daughter is beginning to feel the pressure now. We have no idea where my son and his family live anymore, so sad and think of it everyday that passes.
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