As I get older my younger sister who I used to have a lot of time for is now driving me nuts.
She has three kids- two have moved away and she sees them only a few times a year. I can't remember when I last saw them, must have been before Covid.
Now she has one son living at home and he's at a local college. She openly admits she wants to keep him at home to 'keep her company.' He doesn't seem to to have a life of his own- they go everywhere together- on day trips, to the theatre and cinema, it all seems very strange- just the two of them.
When you see them and you ask a question she answers for him. When I was alone with him he told me he was hoping to go on a short break to Europe for his 18th birthday, but then she came in and said, 'Oh I don't think that's going to happen.'
We all feel a bit frustrated with this, and feel that soon he will join his older siblings and never come home- she is either driving him away or making it impossible for him to ever leave. I just find it very very sad and just wonder what other people think.
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.