I'm not a grandma, but some of my friends are, and I hope it's ok for me to post on Gransnet because of our age demographic.
One friend, aged 70, wants to divorce her husband. She tells us she knew she didn't love him enough when they got married in the 70's, but "settled" for him, didn't think she was "good enough" to attract the desirable, "successful" guys, and didn't want to be "left on the shelf". She was only in her early 20's!
She has stayed with him so long as she hoped they could make it work and have some common goals, but also because she didn't want to break up the family and upset their 2 children. The kids are now in their 30's, and my friend feels they won't be happy, but neither will they be devastated. My friend's husband is a really decent guy, but now he gives her the "ick", and she wants out while she has the ability to.
Her questions to me are not about whether she's doing the right thing, but whether 70 is too old to find love again?
She is socially quite active, and also very attractive and intelligent. She could take up interests/hobbies whereby she may meet men, but she's also wanting to do online dating.
I must admit that if I were in her position I wouldn't have a clue how to start dating again!
So my questions to you lovely Gransnetters are........are there any decent single males aged around 70 out there? If so, where do you find them? And have any of you, or know of anyone who has, tried online dating aged 70 or thereabouts? Thanks for reading x
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