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Nanban Wed 04-Jul-12 18:42:53

A furore today with a crowd of breastfeeders occupying a cafe who had asked a breastfeeding mother to move to a more discreet table! The manager had to apologise and grovel to a bunch of frankly over-endowed breastfeeders. Yuk. Has the world gone totally mad - what girl/woman would walk down the street with her bosoms all-a-hanging; what man, flashing his privates wouldn't be arrested for indecency.

Frankly, if I am out and about, I do not want to be part of an act that should be private and quiet and personal! If I want to see bosoms I can open a porn magazine, or page 3 of a newspaper - I do not want them at lunch.

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 17:58:51

[modest curtsey]

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 18:03:16

I don't get it! confused

whenim64 Fri 06-Jul-12 18:09:48

Butt-y ..... geddit? grin

Mamie Fri 06-Jul-12 18:11:22

Re peeing in France. We notice our French friends never ask to use the toilet even during a five-hour meal. The men do sometimes go and pee in the courtyard, but the women never go. We have four toilets and we entertain a lot, but nobody has ever asked. When we go out we have trained ourselves not to ask either.

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 18:13:35

Oh, yes! grin
Thanks, when!

fillygumbo Fri 06-Jul-12 18:30:19

Ohn nanban, your reaction is sad, I love to see babies being breast fed, its one of the nicest things to see and gives me a warm fuzzy feeling, good for them why should they hide away, when a baby is feeding precious little boob can be seen.

harrigran Fri 06-Jul-12 18:37:00

I too have learned the art of hanging on, I did three 5 hour drives without a comfort stop and my trousers and feet stayed pristine.

j04 Fri 06-Jul-12 18:39:37

Yes. I can hang on. I think it could be all the pelvic floor pull-ups I did when I thought things were going to fall out. (they didn't)

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 18:43:06

I'm amazed at how long I can hang on sometimes. But not when I wake in the night....I just have to go!

j04 Fri 06-Jul-12 18:46:04

Oh yes! Can't go back to sleep without.

j04 Fri 06-Jul-12 18:47:17

We had a thread about she-wees. Last year sometime.

I'll find it.

Greatnan Fri 06-Jul-12 18:48:42

I once read that tennis players don't really need their 'comfort breaks' because they sweat so much and I have noticed that I can take a four hour walk, up very steep paths, on a hot day, without any problems. (I have to remember to drink some water though - my blood pressure once dropped so low that I got light-headed through dehydration.)

j04 Fri 06-Jul-12 18:49:20

you might not have seen it

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 18:54:46

Hmm - wonder if Bags still uses hers?

Mamie Fri 06-Jul-12 19:08:26

By the way, did you know that the reason toilets in French homes often don't have washbasins is because you pay extra council tax per basin and taps.

Mishap Fri 06-Jul-12 19:14:56

As a teenager, I stopped to pee in a ditch whilst on a German dual carriageway - the ditch was quite deep and I thought I would be hidden - that was until a coachload of German men drove by (coach much higher than a car!) and the gents all lifted their hats to me!

Getting back to the original subject - although closely connected to latter posts - some years ago I settled in a cubicle to pee at a public toilet and heard some very strange sounds coming from the next cubicle - I was quite concerned that someone might be unwell, but then realised that a woman was sitting on the toilet breast-feeding her baby in the cubicle. Thank goodness no-one has to do that any more!

On the subject of natural functions, my children are extraordinarily open - they stroll in when I am on the throne, and hold lengthy conversations with me when they are doing the business. They are not one whit concerned - and the GC arrive sometimes! I think it is great and very healthy.

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 19:20:29

Oh no - I draw the line at open house in the bathroom/toilet! wink

j04 Fri 06-Jul-12 19:32:17

Mishap hmm grin

Our second loo is next to the bathroom and my daughter and I often sit "side by side" having a conversation through the wall. grin

Greatnan Fri 06-Jul-12 19:34:27

I was paranoid as a teenager - I would pee as quietly as possible if there were any other women in the public toilets and if I needed to go in the cinema I would always tell the boy I was with that I wanted to comb my hair. The thought of admitting to having normal bodily needs seemed so unromantic. I don't care now!

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 20:16:29

It always makes me giggle inside when I hear a woman in the next cubicle fart! grin

petallus Fri 06-Jul-12 20:18:20

What if you happen to be the woman in the next cubicle farting? grin

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 20:19:07

I remember my wedding day in 1967 my father used the bathroom first. I heard him come out, I went in next. We crossed on the middle of the landing, both stark naked and both of us with a nose in a book!
This was normal in our house! We both said 'good morning ' and carried on.
The same was the same in this house with the children.

The whole family are addicted to books!

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 20:41:26

petallus I never fart - perish the thought! grin

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 20:57:26

confused

Anagram Fri 06-Jul-12 21:01:10

What???