"I agree with a lot of what you say Mishap, but I can't help feeling that children should have some care for other people's feelings instilled in them."
I am sure they care about your feelings - but perhaps it is a matter of examining your feelings and asking if they are reasonable ones. It is very hard to control how we feel about things I know only too well - but maybe it is not reasonable for you to feel put out about this, so they cannot be accused of not caring about your feelings. I am not expressing this very well really - but I hope you get the gist! I think I am tentatively suggesting that maybe you are being a bit over-sensitive about this. I sympathise, but feel that it is very important that they know they can do new things without hurting you.
They sound like lovely people - enjoy them!
Ginny's comment about risking losing what we hold most dear has to be the crux of the matter.
Angela Rayner lashes out and calls Sunak “pint sized loser”.