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?Bikinis in the supermarket

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dorsetpennt Thu 18-Jul-13 09:33:27

I work as an Internet shopper for one of our better supermarkets. I live in a coastal town with 'seven miles of golden sand', so with this hot weather the town is very busy. Our branch isn't on a coastline or opposite the beach, in fact we are in one of the suburbs. However, people, mainly holidaymakers, think it is quite suitable to shop in their bikinis, or men with their t-shirts off [not always a pleasant sight], even bare feet.
Yesterday a group of people came into the shop dressed like this, 2 girls in bare feet [ugh, our streets are clean but not sterile]. Our store manager approached them and asked in an extremely polite and reasonable manner to please cover up - we are food shop after all and other customers do not like it. Oh the fuss and the language - they stomped out shouting about how unreasonable we were etc, etc.
Was our manager being unreasonable? Do you wish to shop [or like me sit next to on a bus home] with nearly naked people - those bikinis were small!!

Bags Fri 19-Jul-13 09:25:48

Quite! grin shock

Ella46 Fri 19-Jul-13 09:26:04

I agree Bags about tv presenters and weather girls, who wear things more suitable to a cocktail party sometimes.

Bags Fri 19-Jul-13 09:28:26

I'd feel self-conscious in a bathing costume of any kind in a supermarket. I suppose with 'plentiful' shorts (think they used to be called walking shorts) on your bottom half, a proper swimsuit as your top would be OK in very hot weather and at beach resorts.

I usually find supermarkets too cold and often take in a jumper even if I don't need one outside.

Bags Fri 19-Jul-13 09:29:13

ella, maybe they're always dashing out to cocktail parties after their TV presentations!

vegasmags Fri 19-Jul-13 09:42:49

Just a little bit off topic here, but in India you see for sale at markets and little shops long cotton drawstring skirts which look lovely and cool and comfortable. Unwary foreigners often buy these to wear on their hols, no doubt thinking they are also respecting local customs. What they don't know is that these are actually petticoats worn under the sari and a source of amusement to the locals who see them striding around in underwear.

sunseeker Fri 19-Jul-13 10:05:46

When on holiday, if I want to get a drink or ice cream or whatever from a shop close to the beach, I always put on shorts and a top over my swimsuit. I certainly would not go to the supermarket in a swimsuit.

I think wearing something loose and light is cooler than exposing lots of flesh

Riverwalk Fri 19-Jul-13 10:43:29

This morning the BBC's weather presenter was showing her bellybutton - both the BBC and the Met Office are government departments .... doesn't seem quite right somehow but it does seem to be the norm that much female flesh is on display even in professional settings.

I must be getting old!

annodomini Fri 19-Jul-13 10:48:46

Just tried to envisage myself striding down the road to Waitrose (with wheelie bag, of course) clad only in swimsuit (not a bikini) and crocs. No.... I couldn't see it, even in my imagination.

simtib Fri 19-Jul-13 10:49:26

I was once in Austria staying at a hotel leisure complex with a swimming pool and also saunas, steam rooms and jacuzzis. I went to go in there wearing my swimming costume and realised that no one was wearing them. you could wear a costume if you wanted, but no one did. So I was left with the decision wear a costume and have 100 people stare at me or not wear one and every one would ignore me. Exactly the opposite to normal life.

Ella46 Fri 19-Jul-13 11:16:58

simtib!! And....................what did you decide? smile

simtib Fri 19-Jul-13 11:23:28

Now that would be giving away my secrets.

granjura Fri 19-Jul-13 12:45:00

I'd say that the 'inappropriate' or 'disrespectful' wording and concept would change according to location. If in a seaside resort, I'd say 'inappropriate' and in traditional/rural area, where the locals dress very conservatively, I'd say 'disrespectful'. Context is so often the key.

Deedaa Fri 19-Jul-13 20:22:15

I have to admit Bags that if he had been young and gorgeous I would probably not have minded at all blush Although it would still help if his jokes were funny!