Dear Ermintrude,
I hope you have managed to feel more comfortable about allowing your son to name his son. Financial concerns in families, well they are probably the biggest can of worms on the planet . When we pay for anything in the shops, it's a simple exchange of goods and money , with family their are always invisible strings attached and they can bind all of you into the most uncomfortable positions from where your vision will almost certainly be obscured , in my experience . Let us know ( not the name , just how you are ) ?