We all seem to be of the same mind. You are absolutely doing the right thing for your family and although you also deserve your own life they need more of your time, at the moment. Your partner seems unable to appreciate what your daughter has been through and why you need to help her. This is a shame as I am sure you could do with his love and support at a time when you must be worried for your daughter. It may be worth explaining to him again why you are doing this, adding that he is important to you as well but your daughter must take priority for the foreseeable future. If he is any sort of a man he will realise that of course you need to put her first and that you and he will get your own time together in the future. I am trying to think the best of him as he is someone who you obviously think is worthwhile. Maybe if he reads some of these comments he will gain a perspective on the matter. I wish you and your daughter well and hope that you are through the worst!
July 23 Limerick (continuation of July 21)