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Little Minx

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Thistledoo Tue 17-Jun-14 14:03:35

I was wondering if any other GNs have had a similar experience to the one I had on Sunday. My DS came to visit with grandchildren, little girl aged 23 months and boy aged four. As it was such a beautiful day we were all out in the garden, myself and DH chasing children around the lawn and generally having fun. DS was sitting watching, and playing on his mobile phone as usual. I was pretending to race DGD up the lawn say to her, I am gong to catch you...... I then caught her picked her up and swung her round saying as I did so, gottya you little minx. With that my DS rounded on me with some anger saying he didn't like me using that word. I questioned him as to why , and what did he think I meant. I was told this was very disrespectful and derogatory to his daughter. I was gobsmacked and upset to say the least, I was only playing and having fun with the toddler. I was so upset in fact that I left the garden and went into the kitchen to prepare the evening meal. They then left without saying goodbye. I can remember reading a comic strip way back in my youth with a character by that name. But DH looked up the true definition in the oxford dictionary and it really is a derogatory term so why is it used so widely. I was really upset and didn't sleep on Sunday night. I would really appreciate some comments about this difficult subject.

numberplease Wed 18-Jun-14 21:49:13

A friend who lives in Lanzarote often makes me smile when she says it`s very hot, or very windy, down her back passage!

papaoscar Wed 18-Jun-14 22:19:10

I give up with some of this pc drivel. I remember the late Frankie Howard reducing a theatre audience to helpless laughter for some minutes with just nods and winks only, but no words. Brilliant! What would the pc police have made of that?

GillT57 Wed 18-Jun-14 23:01:57

The late Frankie Howerd would likely have been picked up as part of Operation Yew Tree by now so lets not romanticise the past. Going by the age of the companion that I saw him with in Corfu, hand in hand, he would certainly be helping the police with their inquiries. Not brilliant.

seasider Wed 18-Jun-14 23:50:47

Your son wants to get over himself and show you some respect. Send him a copy of
the Beano with Minnie the minx highlighted. He should apologise to you.angry

grumppa Thu 19-Jun-14 00:35:41

Back to Nigel - it is an anagram of ingle. Is this a rare piece of Yorkshire rhyming slang, i.e. ingle nook = f**k?

NanKate Thu 19-Jun-14 07:27:02

I agree with you Papaoscar about us going PC mad, in fact I started a new thread on that subject last night. I have included 3 Tommy Cooper jokes - Look under 'Am I being unreasonable' which might make you chuckle. grin

Rowantree Thu 19-Jun-14 10:36:43

I never 'ad no 'alo anyway....grin

Rowantree Thu 19-Jun-14 10:38:09

But going back to thistledoo - has you son or his family contacted you since? If not, I wonder what - or who - will break the deadlock. sigh

Hunt Thu 19-Jun-14 13:10:35

Sorry to have caused such puzzlement. If I say he would have been accused of racism. The point is his little childhood nickname has now become a sacking offence . I believe one of Prince Charles friends had the same nickname.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Jun-14 13:24:47

It's alright Hunt. It was pretty obvious! hmm grin

Ana Thu 19-Jun-14 13:25:46

I've just googled, and apparently Prince Edward had the same nickname when he was young! (Goodness knows why...)

Thanks for enlightening us, Hunt - I think we were all too focused on the 'rude' possibilities grin

Ana Thu 19-Jun-14 13:27:21

(apart from you, jingl)

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Jun-14 13:30:29

I didn't like to say anything in case I was wrong. grin

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Jun-14 13:30:56

Can be a funny lot, the royals.

annodomini Thu 19-Jun-14 14:03:56

Funny lot at Gordonstoun, apparently!

sparkygran Thu 19-Jun-14 18:30:40

Had thought the same as others but wasn`t sure so thanks Hunt for clarification - I too was concentrating on something of the rude all to no avail

FarNorth Thu 19-Jun-14 20:26:50

Minnie the Minx is still on the go in the Beano so what's his problem?

www.beano.com/characters/minnie-the-minx

HollyDaze Thu 19-Jun-14 22:26:50

Good grief Elegran - that song sounds a bit raunchy for my dear old aunt! Then again, I have 'fond' memories of our Christmases at one aunts house (we all turned up) and out would come the gramophone and on would go the 78s and all my aunts and uncles would be singing along to barrack room ballads - the kids were banished to the front room (where the Christmas cake sat on the sideboard grin ) but we could hear them laughing and not understand why!

shysal Fri 20-Jun-14 08:23:07

I have just seen that someone has put a yellow smiley face on the 'Though for the Day' thread. That is something I wouldn't use these days due to it's connection to the Acid House rave scene and taking of Ecstacy. Life is a minefield isn't it? sad

Elegran Fri 20-Jun-14 08:54:15

Holly I suspect that your aunt would be perfectly OK with the song - after all, it does just say "kissing"! Anything else is in the eye of the beholder ear of the listener.

That generation were less starchy than the image they liked to show the children, though. My grandfather used to like to sing the old Music Hall songs - "She is only a bird in a gilded cage" and so on. If he started on one that Granny thought unsuitable for our ears she she would stop him with a sharp "George!"

annodomini Fri 20-Jun-14 09:56:17

My father had a repertoire of rugby songs which had to be strictly censored and my mother and aunt were never as strait-laced as they would have liked us to believe!

rosequartz Fri 20-Jun-14 09:58:40

I have just seen that someone has put a yellow smiley face on the 'Though for the Day' thread. That is something I wouldn't use these days due to it's connection to the Acid House rave scene and taking of Ecstacy. Life is a minefield isn't it?

Shysal, if I was clever enough to reproduce that smiley face I would put a whole row of them on here! They cannot be allowed to appropriate everything.

Lilygran Fri 20-Jun-14 10:44:16

I'm really sorry thistledoo had such a bad experience. I'm really confused, though, over what her son thought 'minx' meant. Words change their meaning over time and this particular word hasn't been used in a serious way for over 100 years! Dictionaries often give every definition without saying when the word was used in that sense. Son should perhaps do some kind of course on language? And start being kinder to his mother!

HollyDaze Fri 20-Jun-14 11:12:17

Elegran - I probably had a smutty moment blush

I think their generation was a lovely generation. This is bringing back some lovely family memories from my childhood - every single one of my uncles could play several musical instruments and those would inevitably come out and be played (along with the piano) and, in my head, I can hear them singing 'The Quartermaster's Stores' - happy memories smile

Thistledoo Fri 20-Jun-14 11:35:37

Thank you Lilygran, what a lot of good fun this thread has been, its turned an upsetting situation into a huge discussion about the play on words. I am trying to get a copy of the Beano for my DS, so we can all have a really good laugh about it. I heard my DIL calling the DGC little sausages the other day!!!! I nearly bust a gut. smile
Thank you all for your amusing posts and wonderful support. smile