gillybob lol about the dog eating the Clark's sandals! 
I did the same with my DC when they got to be teenagers - bought the essentials, school clothes, decent shoes and waterproofs etc, then gave them the family allowance to spend on clothes.
DD found a small cheapish shop in town and kitted herself out with up-to-the-minute clothes; DS spend his on CDs and games. So when he needed new trainers and refused the cheaper but good ones I offered I said he had to make up the difference in price. He didn't have any money left so he had to go without.
Unite the Kingdom and Pro Palestine marches Cup 16th May 2026
Recommendations please for thorn- and nettle-proof gauntlets – if possible vegan


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I got a bit carried away!