Oh well, it looks as if I will have to repeat myself again, (lovely bit of bad grammar there 
Liza80 I've hinted, I've asked/requested. I've even sort of demanded, I've used fairly strong/unequivocal terms, but for some reason (perhaps the fault is mine, if so mea culpa) you really don't seem to understand. I will resort to a list, it might help,
I believe that you are not a "real" member/poster, therefore the situation you present with is not a real one relating to a real person (Frankly my dear, if you really needed advice re shoes wearing out, to which you have referred in previous posts, then you should not be allowed out without a grown up who is of sound mind)
Now here I WILL repeat myself:
SOD OFF
Thank you.