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There were no actions to this verse, absent
I don't feel hassled, Faye.
It is perfectly possible to laugh at something, without feeling personally offended, and yet be simulataneously taken aback and recognise tactlessness...can't see why that's contradictory, merlotgran.
I have no objection at all to hearing people's opinions about what I should have done, what I should do now, what other people would have done...
I know all about AIBU, so no need to sigh, GrannyTwice ....I am a Mumsnet veteran under a different username. I posted here to share this incident, knowing I was absolutely not being unreasonable in finding it unacceptable. Sometimes, AIBU is used in this way, to affirm one's reactions, and yes, I was interested to see if others would have reacted differently. Many of you, it seems, would have done something more interventionist, and that's fine. I jocularly invited those people to 'shoot me' for being passive and wimpy.
Hope that's all crystal clear now
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?
Never Ever Have I - Alphabetical
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic