Just wanted to say thank you for your kind messages, Although we couldnt locate the post I was thinking of, if anyone recalls an article that might help please let me know.
I'm hurting like hell just now, but I know it will take time to come to terms with my daughters loss. I will post on the bereavement forum sometime and let you know how we are doing. We live in a lovely area of North Yorkshire so I will get the kids out and about once the weather improves. Once again thank you for your lovely messages of condolence.
Brenda