A lot of men feel at a loose end when they retire and have no interests and hobbies to fall back on. If your DH has also been ill, Tanith, he may be feeling lost and not be sure what his place in the home is.
Could you encourage him to take part in local activities basedon his interests? If he is into practical activities, you could find out if there is a local 'Men's Shed' menssheds.org.uk/.
DH had plenty to occupy himself when he retired, but missed the camaraderie of the office and used to follow me round all the time he was in the house and hated being left alone if I went out. It wasn't easy.
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