I was on holiday in northern Cyprus a few years ago with my husband, sister, brother in law, and elderly parents - both in their middle eighties. We stopped in a cafe for lunch, all choosing what we would like to eat from a display behind a glass cabinet. Mum chose a cheese pastie, which in fact, turned out to be apple. She complained loudly and so we summoned the waiter, and politely asked him to rectify the situation. He then enquired of mum which assistant had told her it was cheese. She replied loudly and quite rudely, "I don't know, they all look the same to me!" . Cringe worthy does not describe how we four younger - though hardly young - ones felt, but still, it gave us all a good laugh after we left the cafe. Poor mum had no idea that she had been extremely offensive, she just speaks her mind. By the way, we were laughing about mum's outspoken remark and not about the poor waiters who hopefully didn't key in to what had just occurred.