I doubt if I will buy any more gifts for my adult DC. I had been happy to go to visit to give them (DC, DP and DGC) presents but had not wanted to be there for meal as I have severe problems with food.
I had also had an encounter with the exH a few days previously when he was shouting at me about my health problems to such an extent that DGC said to stop.
I was not happy that I would be spending Christmas day with someone who shouted at me. He did it again on Christmas Day again concerning my health. My DD and her OH were in the room at the time but said nothing. I was then criticised for eating slowly and not eating certain things.
The worst bit was that the gifts I had given them were not received well. Apparently I had not spent enough. I allowed DD to make an internet purchase using my card. I was told that I had gone some way to redeem myself!
DGC was in their room all day apart from at meal when it was demanded that he ate food that made him gag. He also has problems with food but different from mine. He does not eat Christmas Dinner foods.
This was probably the worst Christmas ever. I tried to tell DD about her DF shouting not being acceptable but she would not acknowledge that he shouted and criticised my condition.
In future I will have Christmas my way.
Baby Reindeer - anyone watched it?
Alphabetical girls and boys names January 2024