thankyou Franjess. I think she has the dry degeneration, But she is 93, frail in body but not in mind and has very limited mobility in her neck and shoulder, so shouldnt her doctor have advised her?
She goes to a clinic in Tiverton for eye injections, and no one has, as far as I know, suggested she stop driving.
She is totally non suggestible to adivce and sees it as interfering criticism. She is admirably independant but VERY tricky. My 2 siblings are very good to her and visit frequently but dare not say anything. I live 300 miles away and have offered to come to visit when she has her next appointment,and drive her there, but she refuses each time and I know she is suspicious of my motives.
I am beginnning to think that we have a moral responsibility to other road users to do something, but what? She would go bananas if she found out we had done something behind her back. What can we do? And admittedly she hasnt actually had an accident other than bumps to the car, which I am guilty of too!
Thankyou for your concern.