Yesterday I went into the ladies in Marks and Spencer; exiting the cubicle I almost collided with a small boy who had hurled himself across the floor and started crashing repeatedly against the closed door of the cubicle next to me; he used both hands to thump against the door with his full weight, and then shoulder charged several times. Mother was unconcernedly sorting out her shopping. Washing my hands, I thought perhaps someone known to her was in the cubicle, but a flustered elderly lady came out, and rushed straight out of the cloakroom! Drying my hands I watched him slam the cubicle doors in turn as hard as he could so that they bounced back and hit the wall. Mother then invited him to wash his hands. He ignored her completely as I quickly applied some lipstick, and I left to the sound of her repeatedly asking him to wash his hands and the resounding smash of cubicle door against wall. Is it me? Am I being unreasonable in wanting to slap HER legs or is this calm parenting?
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