My younger brother has two children who are 15 years and 13 years old. He has, in the last two years divorced and remarried and I haven't seen the children in the last three years. I have always been especially close to my brother has had my other brother but since meeting his new wife my younger brother has taken to sending really nasty and hurtful emails to members of the family which has resulted in us not speaking to him. When he got married none of his siblings or his best friend attended the wedding.
My dilemna is this, I have always sent money for birthdays and Christmas to the two children even though my own children never received anything from him or his previous wife at all. The children used to send me thank you cards (not received any in the last two years) in return and whenever I saw them or my parents visited them I always sent money for both the children and gave them little presents. Last December I received a letter from the older child asking for the Christmas and birthday money early in order to enable a mobile phone purchase. Odd I thought as the family are moderately well off, their mother having a very good job, my brother giving his ex wife the house in the divorce settlement in exchange for his pension, but I sent the money. I recently had a very big birthday (3 months ago) and I didn't even receive a text message from the children wishing me a happy birthday which upset me. I didn't want a present but a card or text message or telephone call would have been lovely. I am now wondering whether or not to stop sending them money and presents. Would it be mean of me to stop?
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