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Really irritating Facebook posts

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rosesarered Sat 05-Aug-17 21:40:54

Chain letters used to be really annoying ( and chucked in the bin) I would do the same on FB if I were you, a sheer waste of time and do no good anyway.

Deedaa Sat 05-Aug-17 21:21:32

The "uplifting" messages about cancer seem to be very popular with Americans (perhaps because it's the only help they can afford!) fortunately there are some very good cancer support groups on Facebook which can provide really helpful advice.

Imperfect27 Sat 05-Aug-17 21:17:32

I have a very dear friend who likes to forward the 'cancer' posts and others that are designed to push emotional buttons. I have explained that I don't post much on FB and won't pass these posts on. It isn't a problem and I think between us we accept that we use FB differently. I rarely post and just like it for looking in on my close family members.
I do find it difficult if people post 'shocking' footage of accidents - sometimes it is all too evident that someone has died and there is usually a critical message attached about using mobile phones when driving or the like. I lost a daughter in a car crash and it staggers me that even close friends can post these things without a thought of the effect that they might have on me. It seems pointless to point out how insensitive they are, but I wish people would spare a thought. I think posters are either ghoulishly voyeuristic or maybe think they are being virtuous about passing on a warning, but either way such things have the potential to be deeply upsetting.
Rant over ...

Jalima1108 Sat 05-Aug-17 20:34:16

If I get one more FB post about Game of Thrones or Outlander I will have a hissy fit!

I do keep blocking but somehow they still get through!!

Jalima1108 Sat 05-Aug-17 20:33:02

Your friend will have 'passed it on' and , as Gracesgran says, it is from another source. You can block the source without blocking any other posts from your friend.

These things are like chain letters and make no difference to anyone who has or has had cancer.

GracesGranMK2 Sat 05-Aug-17 20:23:10

If you think it is stupid but this person is still your friend then it is important to them but you don't care to know - ignore the post.

If you think it is stupid but this person not your friend then unfriend them.

It's not rocket science. Usually these posts come from another source so you can just click in the corner and 'hide' the post. At this point you will be asked if you want all posts from that source hidden.

There are quite a lot of people on Facebook but there are tools to make it suit the individual.

Ambergirl Sat 05-Aug-17 20:15:37

I stopped using FB for that reason! You can as suggested simply hide that friends posts....I was tired of the same people posting the same things....ditched it and feel way better since!!

tanith Sat 05-Aug-17 20:04:05

You don't need to unfriend them just limit their posts they won't know.

Antonia Sat 05-Aug-17 19:56:31

Thanks for the advice tanith. My friend posts all sorts of inspirational crap stories. I couldn't possibly unfriend the person as they would notice and be very hurt. I take it they will not know about it if I limit their posts.

Nanabilly Sat 05-Aug-17 19:42:04

Those sort of posts are purposely for phishing , they collect email and contact details as they get shared through the web . Don't ever reply to them unless you want lots of spam . I bet your friend gets plenty.
A friend of mine does it too and I have told her but she still does it but her hubby is suffering cancer and really ill with it all I can kind of understand why she does it with all the cancer stories that come along with them.

tanith Sat 05-Aug-17 19:34:05

Change your settings to either see less or none of her posts. I've done that with people I know.

Antonia Sat 05-Aug-17 18:08:12

If I ignore the post then it certainly doesn't imply that I don't care. But it wouldn't make a jot of difference to anyone suffering from cancer whether I care or not. If I can do something useful then I'll do it, but the sheer futility of these posts annoys me. (I'll stop ranting now maybe).

Smileless2012 Sat 05-Aug-17 18:01:35

I agree Antonia. I don't do FB but Mr. S. does and as he says if don't wish to pass on comments of that nature it might mean that you don't know someone with cancer but doesn't but doesn't mean if you do, that you don't care.

Antonia Sat 05-Aug-17 17:58:49

I don't usually rant about Facebook posts, but I have one friend who continually posts comments such as 'Please copy and paste if you know / care about someone who has cancer.' I feel like commenting and asking how this can possibly be of any use to anyone. I am fine with posts dealing with sponsored runs, raising funds etc, but this type of thing is just plain stupid.