We both do whatever jobs need doing, DH worked shifts, and I did unsocial hours, so it's always been a matter of whoever's there when something needs doing, does it!
DH is fully 'house trained' and although soufflés would be beyond him, and his ironing skills aren't the best, he's very good at managing.
merlotgran
I don't have a 'man drawer' in the kitchen, I have a 'woman drawer'!
Through his work DH has amassed a vast collection of tools, and, as they cost him a fortune, he didn't want me using them.
So, at Christmas twenty seven years ago, I received my very own toolbox, complete with very expensive 'Snap-On' tools! Woe betide DH if he so much as lays his hands on my ratchet screwdriver! They're all proper colours too, none of this 'pink tools for girlies' nonsense in this house!
I can wield a power tool with the best of them too!
Paddyann
My MiL wouldn't allow FiL in her kitchen, and when she died he was hopeless, didn't even know how long to cook frozen veg for! She actually did him a huge disservice, as he had to start learning to look after himself at the age of 72! He's lucky that he can afford to get someone in to do his cleaning/washing/ironing etc, and he eats mainly ready meals from M&S or Waitrose. I tried for months to get him cooking, just very basic stuff, but he was so conditioned to staying away from the kitchen he couldn't change!