This could all have been so different if Lies had not been told, promises not been broken. A second grand child who will know about her half sister, who will be forbidden from access even when 18 if the lies told to the first grandchild are believed and she refuses contact.
Yet should SS know and tell the Adopter who then tells her Legal daughter, who then wants to meet her sister before she is 18 which is possible.
We tell and before we know it a complete stranger has full access to our lives and we know nothing about them.
So easy to stand on the outside looking in. I would love my Grandchildren to know each other, but on even terms. The secrets are with the Adopters. It seems you think they should have open access to our world. You are happy for us to have to disclose all, while get nothing in return. I respect my sons wishes and his new partners wishes not to engage with a woman who refused to keep promises of photographs and accept cards. Who is more than happy to accept he web of lies and deceit fed to her by Social Services. If she never comes to find her father to seek answers, or more like the truth, why would she want anything to do with a sister she has never known and will never know unless she comes looking. If she never does, she has not missed anything