So sorry to hear how sad you were Jeff. I understand, just a little something from the children to their gran. Reading your post had just reminded me that my GC (8) didn’t get nana anything. My dad and his partner agreed no presents for adults. However, technically they are my “children” so I did buy for them. My GS and I spent much time with glue, glitter and paint making things that o hadn’t actually thought about it. I’m lucky that I get to see mine often so I don’t think my scenario is anything like yours at all. I can only hope and wish that as your HC get older and can do a little bit of shopping themselves, then they will buy or make you a gift. One thing to hold on to though, is that I’m sure they love their grandma and thatbin itself is a beautiful gift. I so hope things get better for you in time. I would probably not mention anything to my son as it does sound as though you have a bit of a difficult relationship and I don’t think raising the subject would be helpful tbh. Sending you love and ? and the hope this turns out well for you in time.