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Google 'lingerie shops near me' - to find out if there are any specialist shops where you could expect expert help and to select from several brands. Be picky, be difficult, its your money! (Bit of a rant, but it really should not be as hard as it is.)

Just because we get measured and assume that we know our size, it dues not mean that every style and cut of bra in that size, will fit. Bralette, full cup, sling side, balconette etc etc all fit differently and in different materials. In some styles I'm a G in others a GG in the same brand. A good bra fitter will know your size by looking at you in your normal daywear. Bravissimo do that type of look n fit as do some independents selling brands such as Prima Donna and Fantasie. You get what you pay for.

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You don't have to actually GO to Rigby&Peller to buy their bras. Prima Donna are 'made by them' (in Sri Lanka as are M&S) and you can find them sold in many of the better independant lingerie shops.

I am a 36b but I have a broad back. I bought bra extenders in neutral white and black which are confy to wear. I usually buy M&S but I have found some good fitting ones in other shops. I think you have to just keep trying them on.

Apparently you're only meant to have your bra done up on the last hooks. Can't remember where I heard that advice or if it's true?
I'm a 44dd and only buy from m&s. I wasn't measured there though, I really can't remember where I was measured! I buy bras with non slip straps, I'm not symmetrical and they really help. But there's nothing nicer than taking my bra off at the end of the day ?

I handwash bras, individually, the only way to keep them white [or other colours true] and it helps keep their shape and longer life too.

Dont wash in hot water or dry on direct heat. shrinks bras.
I agree. I often take mine off on the settee. I'm a dab hand at removing it without removing my top!

Admit I haven't read all the previous posts but for several years I've bought the same size bra from M and S and my weight hasn't altered. Bought 2 last month and they are on the tight side. Afraid I put this down to another of Marks's current lack of quality control.

I was wearing 38 or 40 C/D, using measurements from M&S, but two different Debenhams stores said I was 36F or FF which I didn't believe at first but have found they definitely fit better. I bought Fantasie and Gorgeous makes and also one from Tesco.
Have yet to find a non-wired one that gives a flattering shape though.
Like Annep, I often take mine off in the evening (also without removing my top) or don't wear one if I'm just going to be at home all day.
I do sometimes wonder whether most of us are actually more comfy not wearing a bra at all and have to ask myself why we bother!

Also. You may be suffering from my problem where I can no longer stand to wear a bra for more than a few hours. Have the same problem with shoes. But will add. Rigby and Peller do amazing fits for bras, even if I can only stand them for a while. Same goes for my sports bra!

For years I thought I was a 36B but after a fitting at a local shop discovered I am actually a 36C. I buy the same basic Triumph bra in that size and it fits me to perfection. I always found that M & S bras never fitted my cup size properly.
I only actually wear a bra when I leave the house (I hate them - must have been invented by men) and remove mine at the earliest opportunity ?

Do you have Berlei bras in the UK? They are the most comfy well fitting bras known. The one I like has a small amount of padding, underwire and no lace. Smooth all over like a t shirt. I tried buying a bra at M n S on a trip to Britain. All of the bras were awful!

Hi folks, I know there aren’t many outlets in the country but if you have Bravissimo in your are they are superb at finding a good fit.

I always go to Bravissimo and find that their bras and their staff are wonderful.

Thanks for advice re different brands. I shall certainly try them next time I shop. I agree with Lewie and wonder why we wear them at all. I have fibromyalgia and the weight (I am normal size ) gives me pains and then the bra hurts too. So its sometimes on..off..on! Also if you are very well endowed, not wearing a bra can cause back problems. However in the majority of cases I think women could do without bras. They are so hot in summer too! We've never been truly liberated from them. I know many females refuse to wear high heels. So maybe some time in the future ....

To find the correct bra size, measure around your chest UNDER your boobs, add 4 inches. eg measurement is 32" plus 4" is 36", this is the bra size. The cup size is calculated by measuring the fullest part of the breast. The difference will give the cup size as follows:-
+3" B cup, +4" C cup, +5 " D cup.
As these measurements are usually taken whilst wearing a bra, the cup size usually ends up as the cup size you are wearing at the time. You will need to try on one cup size smaller and larger to get a good fit. Hope this helps!

I too take my bra off when I am in the sitting room, without taking off my clothes, but if I am wearing a 'pull-on' one it's not easy - especially if I am wearing a tunic top. But it's worth the struggle for the blessed relief!!!
BTW Bravissimo don't go up to a 42" and I think that's the size I need now.

Thank you all for your comments. Some of the bra companies mentioned don’t deal in smaller sizes. I’m going on a bra hunt today and will have a look at mastectomy wear as well as the normal offerings.
As I started the thread it has made interesting reading. It looks as if some folk like me have found over. The years the amount of elasticity and number of hooks ion the back have been reduced, ie from 3 to 2. As nanny people have mentioned the bra comes off at home and TBH I don’t really need a bra but I’ll on special occasions I’d like something to give some shape as many clothes hang better with some underpinnings.
The other thing is that because I breastfed my children, my nipples t ind to poke out, or wink as my daughter says. I feel I am too old to go round ‘winking’ at people!

howtothisandthat.com/properly-measure-bra-size/

It may be that you find this measuring system as helpful as I did, though it was a shock to find that professionals measured me varying from 36B to 34D, when what actually fits properly turns out to be 34G.

The next problem is finding a range in that cup size! "Curvy Kate" works well for me.

I’m a 34D and have also struggled to find a reasonably-priced, comfortable bra that fits round the body, doesn’t have thin straps that cut into my shoulders and looks like a bra – not upholstery. Have found the Ruby range from JD Williams fit the bill. The minimiser style is good for wearing under shirts to avoid gaping buttons
www.jdwilliams.co.uk/shop/1/_/N-1ytvfx8/Ntt-ruby+bra/products/show.action?hnid=10966344&type=cmr

I'm missing BhS. Full cup, unpacked, wide straps, 3 hooks at the back, underwired- managed to hoist my 36DD blobs off my knees to oxter hight.

Unpacked was unpadded. And blobs (probably a perfect description) was actually boobs.