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Namsnanny Fri 08-Mar-19 16:17:32

Just sat here in cafe window minding my own business when along comes a teen making that awful masterbation gesture at me!!! Some school boys behind him found it so funny they all copied him!!! 49 percent of me want to do it back to them just for the shock value ;-) but the 51 percent dignified side of me pretended to ignore it!! Life eh! What would you do?

M0nica Sun 10-Mar-19 10:48:28

I thought the response was always meant to be: 'I have seen better lit up on the Christmas tree.' Not sure why.

anxiousgran Sun 10-Mar-19 12:14:25

I agree with OPs not to react, that”s what they want from you. A man recently ‘exposed’himself to me in a fairly secluded place. I didn’t react, although I did wait for some teenage girls who were slightly behind me. He let them go past. Is it because we are a couple of generations older they think we’ll be shocked?
I didn’t tell the police about the ‘exposer’. Perhaps I should have done. It didn’t seem worth it at the time.

bluenun Sun 10-Mar-19 12:41:27

In the kids making rude gestures instance I would have ignored them or raised a quizzical eyebrow. I would report the flasher though because I wouldn't want anyone else to be confronted or worse...that the flasher goes on to do something very nasty to another person.

anxiousgran Sun 10-Mar-19 13:16:56

Yes, flashers are a step up. I will log it with the police but I don’t know what they’ll think of me, it’s a couple of weeks ago now.

Namsnanny Sun 10-Mar-19 14:58:40

Stella1949...lol!! That made me snort so loudly the cat jumped in fright grin

Namsnanny Sun 10-Mar-19 15:03:37

Rude gestures seem to be the norm nowadays! Don’t want to sound like an old moaner, but I remember 12 y old boys at school flashing the v sign at each other but not at the girls or bystanders on the street, whatever their age! More than likely they would have been challenged for their bad behaviour....which is not advisable now is it?

Namsnanny Sun 10-Mar-19 15:06:26

Bikergran...love that storywink

RobertStevenson Wed 03-Apr-19 21:21:00

I completely agree with what you did, it was very good and you didn’t give them the attention they wanted. Give yourself a pat on the back!!

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Chewbacca Wed 03-Apr-19 21:48:49

gransne2 I have reported your posts.

Granny23 Wed 03-Apr-19 21:50:04

I have reported the last 4 posts. As the thread has agreed - best to ignore.

Gonegirl Wed 03-Apr-19 21:52:41

I love the name. gransne2. grin

Chewbacca Wed 03-Apr-19 21:56:15

Are you alright Gonegirl? confused

janeainsworth Wed 03-Apr-19 21:58:18

Perhaps we should all do a collective Baroness Trumpington gesture, with the look of contempt that goes with it.