I would just fail to notice it, I have found that seemingly being unaware when someone is trying to shock by either making gestures or saying something that is meant to be shocking, rather takes the wind out of their sails.
Best thing is ignoring them as most have said because the airheads are only waiting for a reaction and when that's not forthcoming they'll just go on to the next one, or give up altogether. Let's hope the next one gives them a fourpenny one !
I would have ignored them, but sometimes a reciprocal gesture has a shock effect. My ex father in law, who thought a woman's place was barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, was always giving women drivers a mouthful of foul abuse, until the day a smartly dressed woman in an expensive car simply stared expressionlessly at him then gave him a V sign and drove away. He was speechless.
I used to work as a car valeter, we had the massive windows car show room windows.
A young lad (prob start of secondary school used to walk past making gestures
But one day he was saw engrossed making the gestures he forgot about the Lampost!!! ha ha ha lol Oh !! revenge as they say is best served cold lol. "Smack" right into the lampost. lol 40 yrs later I can still picture the scene lol
I remember a child doing that at school! Last day of term and handing out ice lollies to the class, and a particularly obnoxious child started doing it to his lolly. Luckily he was seen by another teacher who whipped the lolly out of his hands, so he went without. Serve him right, I'm afraid.
Having never seen that gesture ( I live a sheltered life) Not sure how obscene it was, but think I would have shook my head pityingly at them and gone back to reading the paper.
Just sat here in cafe window minding my own business when along comes a teen making that awful masterbation gesture at me!!! Some school boys behind him found it so funny they all copied him!!! 49 percent of me want to do it back to them just for the shock value ;-) but the 51 percent dignified side of me pretended to ignore it!! Life eh! What would you do?